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Family plays a vital role in a person's life, and along with family, friends are also crucial. We are most attached to our family, followed by our friends. Our attachment to family is even greater because they are blood relations, and it's natural to have attachment there. Now, when it comes to the question of whether family is holding you back, we must first understand the reason behind this. This reason is crucial because your family loves you deeply, and no family would want any member of theirs to be left behind or denied success. Every family desires a better life and success. However, sometimes we are prevented from doing something or are held back. What could be the reason behind this?
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Those in your family who are older than you have more life experience than you? Your family members have seen you since you were born and they know everything about you. Therefore, sometimes they feel that you will not be able to do a particular task or that there is a risk in doing this task, then for this reason they push you away. But this is not a wrong thing because they have more experience than you and if they are refusing you to do any work, then the reason behind it is that they are protecting you from some danger. We may not be aware of the dangers, but the family has more experience of these things, hence they understand the dangers.
Now, sometimes this is the reason, but sometimes there are other reasons as well. A person often makes significant mistakes in certain things during childhood, and because of these mistakes, their image in the family is somewhat tarnished. This is why their family discourages them from doing those tasks, knowing they won't be able to do them properly. It's not necessary that someone who is already bad at something will always do it poorly later. Often, people excel based on experience and then start doing things better, but their families don't gain confidence in them. It's crucial to instill confidence in your family because only then will they support you in your work. They will then start to discourage you from doing the things you used to do poorly in childhood. The Caber family's limited thinking causes them to pursue you because they feel they won't be able to guide their children in the things they don't know or haven't experienced, and they may not be able to succeed in them. But looking at it from another perspective, they want to keep you safe and avoid any danger. So, after checking, they take this step, and they take this step very thoughtfully, because they know that this decision could significantly change their children's future, but they don't want to take the risk.
Now, what should you do in a situation where your family is trying to pull you back? The first thing you need to do is handle such a situation calmly, because sometimes we get angry at our family or fail to explain things to them properly. The first step is to talk to your family and make them realize that you now have a talent that you may not have had before, and that you can now perform tasks better. You need to give them confidence that you can now do tasks perfectly, which you may have done poorly in childhood. There are several other things you can do, such as talking to a senior teacher or mentor about your family and convincing them that you can now do the task better. This may help them stop stopping you and support you.
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