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Happiness and sorrow go hand in hand in our lives. We all experience profound suffering, and this suffering can be deeply distressing. Many people feel that their fate is bad, or that such suffering is destined for them. This is a subject worthy of careful study. First, we must understand the mental state of a person experiencing significant grief. Our mental state largely depends on the grief we experience, and how we can handle it accordingly. This isn't difficult, but we can understand it. Let's use the example of a small child. Suppose a small child is orphaned and is taken in by someone who doesn't treat them well. He makes them work all day, beats them, abuses them, and harasses them greatly. A child is very young, doesn't know much and hasn't seen much of the world. Therefore, they will likely believe that the way people treat other children is similar to how they are treated. Their mentality hasn't developed, so they'll think everyone is like that. When they grow up, they won't treat anyone well because they've experienced the pain they've endured as children. This can't be achieved without someone in their life who can guide them from time to time and educate them about the true reality of society. You may have encountered people who speak angrily and are often quite upset. While it's not always possible for someone to be hurt, anger often stems from ego. However, understanding a person's pain can reveal many things. You can talk to her with a little humility, maybe she will tell you her sorrow and her mind will feel lighter because many times a person has a lot of sorrow in his mind but there is no one to understand him and he needs someone who can understand him and he can talk to him so that his mother's sorrow gets lighter.
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Forgiving someone depends on their circumstances. They often do things that they do, and then regret it when the truth is revealed. Even if you guide someone well and explain things to them, but they still don't understand, then no one can understand them. They will continue to do so, repeatedly expressing their grief to others, believing that everyone should suffer as much as they do. In such a case, they are not good for society. We should strive to improve people's understanding as much as possible, but if someone is extremely stubborn, understanding and handling them is a bit difficult, as controlling such people is not everyone's cup of tea. We can make every effort, but if the person simply doesn't improve, then it's a problem. Sometimes it's even labeled a mental illness because the mentality of such a person is such that they believe that if they are suffering, they should want everyone to suffer, or they will deliberately cause others suffering. This is completely wrong, because the person should work on improving themselves so that they can see the future and handle any suffering they may face easily.
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