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The way a family is important in life, so is the importance of friends. Friends, it is a very important part of our life, who play a very big role in our life, when we used to be young and we used to study in school, he used to be friends with most of the students of our class on time. Then a little age increased and then we had to choose among friends and you must have seen that then after one age, friendship is with only those people who match with our idea. You must have noticed one thing that the last classes of the school are formed in different groups and people who have one type of thinking and their thoughts and choices are of the same type, those people form their own group and then this group follows on life if there is no change in the thinking of a person. If you come The one who is successful from school to college, there are many changes in the thinking of the person. Change is necessary but it is not even necessary that if the thinking of the person is completely opposite to his friends, then his friends will not like to include him in the group.
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When we make friends, before we do, consider the reasons behind them. If a student in your class suddenly starts talking about a game, and in return, they start talking to you about something else, perhaps without your knowledge, your interest piques, and you start talking to them even more. Gradually, you discuss other things and find that your interests match, making them a good friend. It's rare for two people to have no significant interest in common yet still be friends. Such a friendship doesn't last long because a deep-seated antipathy toward each other persists. It's possible that they became friends for a reason, but if that reason ends, their friendship ends. You may have noticed that during college, you have many friends, but once college ends, you only have a few friends you can talk to, and everyone else gets busy with their own lives. People who stay in touch aren't necessarily doing so for personal gain or other reasons, but simply because they value friendship and maintain it.
Friendship has its limits. It's not necessary to pursue friendship to any lengths. Often, in a friendship between two people, one person constantly puts in effort, but the other person doesn't value their influence and takes the other person for granted. This is where the first person realizes their limits and realizes that they should end this friendship. If they don't value anything, how can they possibly be friends? Respect for each other is crucial in friendship. If you respect each other, it creates a sense in both of you that they respect you, and I should respect you back. If you extend a hand of friendship to someone you can't respect, it's best to withdraw your hand. What's the point of a friendship that lasts only a short time.
It's becoming increasingly common these days for people to make friends, then if they find someone better, they abandon you and move on, constantly changing their friendship. It's best to stay away from such people, as they can never be friends with just one person, as they are obsessed with changing friends, a habit that prevents them from remaining loyal. Today, they may be maintaining a good friendship with you, but tomorrow, if they find someone better, they'll move on, and so on. This phenomenon has become increasingly common. Such people may claim to have many friends, but if we ask them if they have a true friend, they won't have an answer.
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