https://youtu.be/qUluFZhUsL0?si=kArSSE2JiMHvRGYh For every event that happens in life there's a reason for it. From the human perspective we may not really see or be able to make sense out of it. Some could be as a result of our wrong doings. It could also be a way of testing our faith that we claim to have in God. For some people, it is at the point of situational crisis that they remember to go to God. This is the best action to take at such times because it is only God that has all the answers that we need in any kind of situation. There are limits to the answer that man can give us. The bible describes God as one who seats on the throne and made the earth His footstool. God is fully aware of everything that is going on down the earth. He knows the end of everything right from the beginning. No one desires good for us as much as God does.
Matthew 7:11 KJV If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children, how much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to them that ask him?
Our parents may try their possible best to make available good things to us. But it is nothing compared to when God decides to do us good. Most times the beginning of certain things may leave us perplexed and confused but at the end it will all be for good. No situation that God allows us to go through is for our downfall. Rather, it's for our lifting up.