Good evening from here ladies of this community. I want to bring to your table; This experience which i tittled self_pity, To start with is that self pity will make you not to see your brighter tomorrow avoid it. Friend's?, i want to talk about the life style of a man and his life story, his names are mr Green, philip, igbokwe. a bussiness man born from Anambara state here in Nigeria.I use to tell people that once in the life of a man you can face ugly situations you never dreamed about and that was what came to mr Green at this pointing time but that dose'nt mean the end of story for such a man, it can happen to one both man or woman. Mr Green as popularly known , was once a man on money, he made real clean money with large family of six then but a day came that almost all he had made was lost an experince he list expected in life suffering for the sin of another person,!Mr Green was arrested one morning by the police with the Vigilanty group and was detained for two year's(2yrs) inside prisons because of a property he new nothing about. After the final judgement at the expiration of the two year's he came out and people friends and well wishers gathered and was asking, mr Green, philip Igbokwe, please this for this two year's out of your home without the careing of any one'just in misery what sustained you?, And he said " I never felt Sorry For Myself" what am trying
to say is that very often we are prone to self pity, rejection, and self _ condemnation. We blame our selves for other people's mistakes that can easily be corrected; hearing the story of mr Green, his predicaments every one including myself expected that he will live the rest of his life bemoraning himself after losing some of his children?, the wife ran away?,his poultry farm closed down without accountabilty from any one, but it was instructive that his Response was toward every thing he acquired lost was to start going to church he never gone to before.You will see the shop of his wife when it was well and the husband own also and then after the days of pains you will equally see one of the days him and his family was tracking going to the market starting life back from level one.Mr Green now has decided to hand over his life and the entire family to God insteady of worry, He chose to encourage himself in the Lord rather than wallow in' self_pity".MY THOUGHT; Friend's i have discovered that whenever some one toe the path of 'self_pity" You will suffer more looses, we lose our Joy, peace, sleep, time, money and so on(expirence is the best teacher), But if one succeed to aviod 'self_pity"?, You gain more,!We gain our confidence in God and before human's a growing faith and the opportunity for total recovery. A trial will convince you. You must boldly rebuke"self_pity" is a ditch that prevents you from seeing the brighter tomorrow as i said before, It makes unfortunate conclution, turning a process into a full stop. Rebuke and reject every sympathizer's that tend towards' self _pity .THANK'S FOR READING.
