Break the myth
I know that many people worship the book "The Secret." But I claim that many people do not understand it correctly. For example my friend previously told me
Never tell yourself that you can not achieve anything, you will broadcast to the universe not to bring you abundance!
The truth is that I got a little pressure. The fact that he told me "never" made me want to do the opposite. The strange formula for the success of guided imagery and countless times of back in the head on mantras of success have not helped me in a very long time!
The truth is that I felt exhausted and I think that everyone who reads the book "The Secret" feels exhausted after a few days that he is trying to adopt it
After years of trying to understand how to make the universe bring me what I want (really want). I realized that my desires were not in my control at all! Perhaps it is possible to develop a desire slowly.
But it is almost impossible to change your will, all that the secret book tries to tell you is
Get your wishes out!
Take a little notebook, And write down in detail. How do you want your wife to see? How do you want your house to look? How do you want your children to look?
And after a few years you'll realize that the whole universe is directing you to something else you really want! That when you wrote in your little notebook what you wanted, you did not understand what you wanted.
For example, I wrote in my little notebook that I wanted to be like one of my brothers in terms of marriage life, if I'm not mistaken I also put a picture of them today , it's really really far from what I want...
I remember I also put a nice picture of a BMW car and today I'm in the direction of the most simple car that just does the job!
Even if they pay me money, I will not drive in a Ferrari near people
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The Chief Rabbi of Israel was an admirer of "Quality of Life Together with Wisdom" And today I'm not a religious person at all (at least not like I was).
If you really want to attract something, imagine it. But you must imagine what you really really want! If the imagination comes from an advertisement, a movie, or something else that has influenced your life the way you wanted it to.
You will attract air!
What I discovered:
If you think less, you get what you want. I remember that I had something I was able to do with my studies above what I expected very much! I did not care at all to fail. I never used "the secret" technique. And I told myself I was very bad at this subject( in my opinion.)
but!
What came out of me was pressure !
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Without imagination, without "acting like I'm already" style "fake it till you make it." I received a grade of 10 All I had was calm and self-confidence that everything would be all right.
I'm not saying! Imagination can lead us on! Can take out things we can only imagine. First of all you will understand what you want and only then can you imagine and truly achieve it!
Some ways to help me know what I want: 1) The hardest way is to try and fail and understand that you do not want one thing and you do want something else. But this is also the most effective way for me. 2) A person with life experience, A person who really wants to listen and help you, someone who does not have such a person in life is a poor person. 3) Talk to a good friend. A true friend is a friend who tells you what you really need and not only feels sorry for you. It will also help you achieve what you want. 4) Try to surround yourself with people who bring you good energy, sometimes in adult life it is very difficult, we imprison ourselves and can not free ourselves from commitments, it is very important to be in a place where the energy of people does us good!
I never succeeded where the energies were bad (people made me personally feel bad energies, maybe other person could feel great at the same place.)
In conclusion:
The secret book is a book for advanced people In my opinion, it should come after the book "What do I really want from myself - Spiritual development" Then the tool of the book "The Secret" is a great tool to attract good things to you, peoples always love the "easy way" but for the easy way and for implement the "secret" you should first cross the hard stage and that is "Finding inner will"
