Forgive or Forget; My Opinion

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___ ___  [Pixabay](https://pixabay.com/illustrations/ai-generated-jesus-forgiveness-9019612/) Today's topic connects us with two more topics that high learners need to know about friends. Forgiving and forgetting are two different topics, but if we combine them, what do we get to understand and what can we say about them? In life, we have to face people who disappoint us, sometimes through their behavior, actions, or even words. Now the question arises whether we should forgive such a person, and if we have forgiven him, then forgetting this reaction or incident can be part of our nature. If we have forgotten this incident, then it is okay, it will not come to our memory again. But I think that forgiving and forgetting it is a great practice that we should adopt. Whenever we have a bad relationship with someone or there is a fight, our heart first accepts and denies it. If there is hatred in the heart, then we cannot forgive anyone. The process of forgiving is from the heart. It starts and after forgetting, our relationships start moving towards improvement Some incidents are not possible to forget, and they get imprinted on the mind. We all know that our minds do not allow us to forget anything because everything that happens to us is repeated. If we look at it, if we get the help of the mother, then we can forgive any incident by thinking about it mentally. And sometimes it happens that forgiving is considered the best action and it is also beneficial for humanity. Therefore, the mind has its power to forgive and forget small things. Now I want to think that forgiving and forgetting can be possible at the same time. It is absolutely possible because what Mary says here is that forgiving and forgetting are two such actions that are within the control of a human being. If we adopt one action, then the other will have to be adopted automatically. If we do not adopt it, then the first cannot be followed either. Therefore, forgiving and forgetting are the preferred actions and they are It is very important to act Forgetting or forgiving is not an easy task. It is a difficult task that everyone can do. Some people keep their mind and heart under control, act with great patience, and keep this attitude in mind, and think about whether we should forgive and forget. Some of them are not only quick to anger but also unable to forgive someone and forget their reaction. They want us to take revenge on them at all costs. But resolving any issue with understanding is success. Any issue leaves a bad impact on our lives, and we cannot resolve it without forgetting. If we have to move forward in life, we will have to get out of this confusion. It depends on the matter whether we can move forward in life by calling them and forgiving them or not. If we adopt the habit of forgiving, because mistakes can be committed by any human being, but forgiving these mistakes is a big act. Forgiving is a conscious act that we can decide on ourselves, but it is not in our power to do so. It takes time and slowly we start talking about this thing. I think this topic is very good for discussions. I sincerely hope that you guys will discuss it with me in the comment section as well. |𝔸𝕓𝕠𝕦𝕥 𝕄𝕖| |--| Amjad Sharif is an experienced farmer, educated agricultural expert, amateur gardener, and tourist person. He specializes in modern and natural ways of agriculture. He presents his experiences and highlights of rural life in a simple and informative manner on Hive. ____ ____

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