 [Fuente](https://pixabay.com/es/photos/el-camino-hacia-adelante-conduciendo-5752033/) Editada en Canva. Sin embargo hay ocasiones donde pa’ lante no es opcional…es la única alternativa que tienes, deja de ser una invitación al positivismo para convertirse en un acción obligatoria, en una única opción. Me atrevo a contarles mi experiencia personal, tengo mi único hijo con una dependencia física extrema, con su salud momentáneamente disminuida…no hay más elecciones, aunque he querido rendirme, siempre debo levantarme y continuar. No es solo en asumir mi responsabilidad como madre la cual realizo desde el alma, es que no hay otra, el mismo amor la fuerza que todo lo mueve en especial el de padres te conduce a no detenerte…no puedes, buscas el “adelante” y para allá vas.  En oportunidades la vida te coloca en un camino donde solo importa proseguir, deja de interesarte si pierdes algo de ti misma en el andar, si alguien se queda a tu lado o se marcha, todo lo que ocurrió en el pasado deja de interesar, se vive exclusivamente en el presente para vivir un día a la vez y proyectar que vas a hacer a futuro donde queda Pa’alla y cómo vas a llegar a ese lugar en el cual te espera el logro de la recuperación de tu ser querido….al mismo tiempo sientes que nunca es un sacrificio, no importa cuánto dejes de ti en la vía, hay una transformación tan enérgica que supera cualquier otra cosa.  Detenerse es parte del proceso, hacerte preguntas como: ¿Por qué yo? ¿Por qué a mí? ¿Y ahora qué? Responsabilizar al destino, la suerte e inclusive a Dios es circunstancial, el detenerse es solo para tomar aire, impulso y proseguir. Quiero, deseo, trabajo, busco, disciplina constante, aceptación sin resignación, horizontes nuevos….son las palabras que acompañan este tipo de ruta. Desconozco si la frase es “venezolana” o no, posiblemente lo sea creo que hay pocos seres tan extraordinariamente resilientes como los venezolanos, considero que es sinceramente humana, esas palabras que nos auto decimos cuando es necesario, cuando no obstante cumplir con las responsabilidades no depende de ti en su totalidad, cuando se necesita de ese extra de auto entusiasmo para no decaer por completo…no rendirse. Como diría el Poeta [Link](https://www.poemas-del-alma.com/blog/mostrar-poema-484448) Voy, a sortear los sin sabores, que la vida, nos sabe dar, voy a caminar por el mundo para así hacerme notar. No importa si soy mal visto, ò si nò me quieren ver, yò echarè "pà-lante" sìn un apìce que perder. Voy à buscar mi verdad; en medio del vendaval. Un agradecimiento especial a @damarysvibra por esta particular motivación a escribir y la catarsis necesaria, así como a toda la comunidad  Certainly in the expression there is a kind of positive affirmation and at the same time a suggestion to follow a certain direction, an invitation that leads, I believe that every human being has needed, if not exactly this phrase, a similar one to get up from a fall or stumble, or from some bad decision or omission to continue, which is exactly the motivation that the phrase gives to...remain... to do so, the path is always forward.  [Source](https://pixabay.com/es/photos/el-camino-hacia-adelante-conduciendo-5752033/) Editada en Canva. However, there are times when moving forward is not optional... it's the only alternative you have. It stops being an invitation to positivism and becomes a mandatory action, the only option. I dare to share my personal experience: I have my only son, who is extremely physically dependent, with his health temporarily diminished... there are no other options. Although I have wanted to give up, I must always get up and continue. It's not just about assuming my responsibility as a mother, which I do from the soul; there is no other option. The same love, the force that moves everything, especially that of parents, drives you to never stop... you can't; you seek "forward," and that's where you go.  Sometimes life places you on a path where the only thing that matters is moving forward, you stop caring if you lose something of yourself along the way, if someone stays by your side or leaves, everything that happened in the past stops being important, you live exclusively in the present to live one day at a time and project what you are going to do in the future, where Pa'alla is and how you are going to get to that place where the recovery of your loved one awaits you... at the same time you feel that it is never a sacrifice, no matter how much you leave behind on the path, there is a transformation so energetic that it surpasses anything else.  Stopping is part of the process, asking yourself questions like: Why me? Why me? And now what? Blaming fate, luck, and even God is circumstantial; stopping is only to take a breath, take a burst of momentum, and continue. I want, I desire, I work, I seek, constant discipline, acceptance without resignation, new horizons… are the words that accompany this type of journey. I don't know if the phrase is "Venezuelan" or not, possibly it is. I believe there are few beings as extraordinarily resilient as Venezuelans. I consider it to be truly human, those words we tell ourselves when necessary, when fulfilling responsibilities doesn't depend entirely on you, when that extra bit of self-enthusiasm is needed to keep from completely collapsing…not to give up. As the Poet would say[Link](https://www.poemas-del-alma.com/blog/mostrar-poema-484448) I'm going to overcome the unpleasantness that life can give us. I'm going to walk the world so that I can be noticed. It doesn't matter if I'm frowned upon, or if they don't want to see me, I'll push forward without a shred to lose. I'm going to seek my truth; in the midst of the storm. Special thanks to @damarysvibra for this particular motivation to write and the necessary catharsis, as well as to the entire community.