Hi, I am Arveno from Surabaya city. In this content i want to share about my son. At first like i always said that i never trully care about his grades at school. I never ask him whether his grades good or bad. Since i am more focused how his attitude and how the curiosity in his subject. I think that is more important than grades. Since what i felt after growing up is how to implementing this subject into our lifes. And most of the subject are kinda useless to our lifes. Thats why i dont really care about his grades. What i know recently is he got some perfect score. I dont know how much exactly maybe once or twice but i really dont know it. My wife who knows his grades.
So, i dont know exactly how my son in school. How much he is developing on subject. And how clever he is until this week. Due the riot, all school in my country switched to Online School. And i am who watching my son school and help him preparing for school. What i proud is i am not distraught because he seems can prepared his subject even tho same with me kinda messy prepare.
Look at him, still messy after wash his face and brush his teeth and not want to online school. He said better goes to school and seeing all his friends than watching laptop.
But, i said not everything can happened at what he want. Sometimes we need to still doing it even tho we are not like it. I know it still early for him to know what adult responsibility. But, at least i give him tryout as adult. All adult will do what he need to do even tho does not like it at all. Who want to work anyway. But, we as adult still doing it right?? Same with him, too boring watching laptop and truthfully, in my country the internet is kinda slow. So, the sound and the kids crowd is too noisy. Even the teacher kinda laggy there. And he said that he kinda not understand what the teacher said. Even me, that listening the teacher sometimes cannot understand what his teacher said. The noise and the laggy make the language not understanable. But, at this point, when i am listening his clasee, i know that my son is placed in Clever student. I am pretty sure that he does not know what the teacher talking about. But, yet after the teacher calling his name, he can understand and answer the questiong with right answer. I am kinda schocked here. Never though that he can understand the lesson for this week. I think my son is the type that when he focused, he can catch on very quick and saved it in his brain.
After school over, it is time to finish his homework first since tomorrow is day off in my country. So, i said to my son, if you want to finish your homework all your homework today. You can play until Sunday. No need to doing homework. But,still you need to study for 1 hour at saturday and sunday. But, you will not distracted to do any homework anymore. Turns out that he will do all his homework today. And this is when i can see how clever he is.
First of all there are 3 homework with 2 pages each subjects. And i know his english is not good at all. I think he just asking few words to me and then he silent. At first, i think he is lazy and doing nothing and I just let it be until i finished working first and then looking after him. But, turns out that he is finished first before i am done with my work today. What a day. And when i checked all the answer, he really did answer all correct. I am curious about this, so i asked him how he understanding about this imperative sentence and how he know how to answer correctly. His answer is simple by connecting the dots between words that he asked me before. And then he explained the dots with his language not like student language. But, i kinda understand what he mean. And then he just working it and answer it. This is what shocked me and really. I dont know i need to be really gratefull to GOD. I think he is trully genius and my burden reliever i guess. He can be independent at early age, he never whinning too much, He is simple and easy, He is trully clever. I just cannot thank you enough to God about what he gives. My son is trully blessing for my life. And i dont want to repeat my dad mistake that never said proud to his sons. Right now everytime i will said it to my son that i really proud at him.
