Hello everyone you're welcome to my blog this is my entry for hive students weekly prompt and the topic for this week is (PEER PRESSURE)
Peer pressure is what a lot of people go through these days or almost times it is labeled as inferiority complex and that makes you try to live up to a certain standard but is a way above you or make you want to do some things that only normal day you won't do because this is you and you are not cut out of this kind of things.
I'm no longer a student I have graduated from school but yes they were time when I felt so much pressure to do some certain things to feel among my fellow students.
from the kind of background I came from I wasn't want to always be fascinated about the latest trend the latest fashions the latest phones the latest shoes or the latest hairs. But getting into the university walls a lot of things changed I had roommates that were classy they had trending clothes trending shoes live and life bags and I didn't have any of that that didn't really matter to me no no matter to me till I change the course in the year 2019 to public health.
So I saw she's higher caliber of girls that dress flashy most of them had iPhones which boyfriends and something just have one boyfriend they had a lot they would call it putting your ex in different baskets in case one disappoints you can fall back to the other and if they see you as one who is just having one man and the man doesn't even have money they will look down on you. Through my ears in school I actually devoted myself into things that my beneficial for me and took most of my time which are basically school work and church activities drama activities to be specific that is where I find my own peace and solace.
I'm a lover of black wears and I'm a slim lady so there was this time in school that I got taunted a lot because I was slim and out of peer pressure I went to get body enhancement products are I started taking them and took them for some months and I found out that the thing really work that is one thing I regret doing out of peer pressure. I'm speaking about the thing I putting your eggs in so many baskets at the end you find out that is not what it's it's really not what it you just have to find someone who is your best person and stick to that person don't let people lead you to something you would do regret and in the future.
I lost most of this friends that I had that made me make some certain decisions back there in school right now I have just myself just to me and nobody else and two of my girlfriends who have been very encouraging in my trying times at the moment to the the two people that I call friends right now.
lessons that have learned from peer pressure is the best thing you can do for yourself is to be you and do you don't let anybody make you feel less of yourself carry yourself with so much pride and love that's what determine the kind of love that people show you and the way people respect you.
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