https://youtu.be/6RPVkpuiddU?si=IinOHnzxIU0-VSeg Hearing but not listening to God's word is when you hear the word of God and you did not act on what you heard which is seen as spiritual disobedience. When you believe that you are God's follower and you failed to act on his word is a form of self-deception. If you want to grow your faith, you will not only base oh hearing, but hearing and also obeying.
Being a hearer only can lead to consequences, just like Jeremiah, refusing to listen has many disastrous consequences, which is punishment, disobedience, and the person will also loss God's blessing. It shows that you are just hearing what is comforting or convenient for you than all the message, including alter call for repentance. If you want to move yourself from hearing to listening you have to be an active listener, listen with your full attention, not just with your normal ears this means engaging your mind, it have to absorb the message and bring out the meaning.
Don't only listen and forget, is important to put God's teachings into practice in your life. A good listener involves understanding the message, so that it can change your behavior and character. The act of listening is directly connected to obedience, just open yourself to God word and do what it says, the book of revelation said if anyone hears my voice and opened their door I will come into him and dine with him.