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We cannot really get everything we want in life, that is one of the harsh truths about life.
In some cases , the harder we fight against reality , the more heavier it falls on us, this feels unfair sometimes. Now when you accept this fact , it does not mean that you are weak or that you should give up , it means seeing things the way they are and not to add extra pain through resisting it.
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Take the example of losing a job. The first reaction is often shock, anger, or endless thoughts like, “This should not have happened.” Those thoughts only make the experience harder. But if you can align with the fact or should i say accept that the job is gone, you will see that your energy will definately shift. You can update your resume, reach out to people, and start applying for new roles. A
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The same idea applies to smaller moments too. Imagine it starts raining during a picnic.
One person is at one corner complaining during the whole time and wishing that they had a different weather , the other person accepts the weather , looks for an umbrella , and continues enjoying the day.
The situation is the same, but their experiences are completely different.
Resisting reality is like adding an extra suffering to the one you are already experiencing, while acceptance on the other day has to do with removing that extra layer. The challenges are not erased but it makes the burden very light to carry. Thus gives you a very calm mind, and with a calm mind ,solutions will appear quicker.
So guys , The next time something doesn’t go as planned, instead of complaining , try to become positive, try saying, “This is what’s happening right now.” Then choose the best step forward. As time goes on , you will notice how easier life is, not becaus your problems vanish, but because you stop fighting against them.
True strength comes from accepting life as it unfolds and moving forward with clarity. Acceptance is not weakness it’s freedom.
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