Failure it's never easy to bear it hits very hard it makes the question your words it's just the decision and sometimes even that's your dreams but there's important everyone can fear at any time but the difference between those who stay down and those who decided to rise higher is what they do after they fall.
When you are in a position you face a painful failure you can either choose to play the victim or you can tell yourself that there is someone out there who circumstances were so much worse than you but they sit on their situation and achieve something big and choose to take it as possible for their they choose to take responsibility for their position in life.
So many people mostly choose easy land, they want to claim it, they blame the system, they blame people, they blame their past and everything they also give valid reasons for their setback they never take responsibility.
Life does not reward those who complain or those who live a life of pity when you play the victim you are just any temporary sympathy but when you take responsibility immediately you're in for a lasting success.
Think of the greatest mind in the world who grew up in poverty and faced hardship but with determination they were willing to change their story they had every reason to quit but yet they refused they didn't dwell on why did it happen. Wt can I do next? they were willing to change things until you feel it's not the end of your story it's just show the chapter and your strength you're in now.
Every successful person you admire now can they were once a failure before the later become the best. The only way that you can go ahead now is to just to stay down, you have to be willing to take responsibility for your life learn from them still keep moving.
The next time you're in a position that life knocks you down remember that you're not a victim you are the author of your story and you decide how the story ends whether you're anything in a good way or in the bad way. You choose to rise now learn from your mistake take responsibility because once you stop blaming the world and start owning your journey then failure can stop and you'll be willing to become a greater teacher so far.
No matter how it is just remind yourself if someone can do it i too can do it and there's nothing special in winning everyone can win it's not secluded for some certain kind of people.
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