Break free from unrealistic standards - Life isn't a Race

*Unrealistic society standards are fake rules that make people chase perfection instead of being their real and happy selves... And these rules have caused more harm than good because many people have ended up hurting themselves or walking the wrong path just to make sure they achieve those unrealistic standards.*  [source](https://pixabay.com/photos/mirror-man-darkness-sadness-3864155/) *Men are expected to have a successful career and be wealthy by a certain age, and those who don't meet that expectation are often looked down on by society.* *Ladies are also expected to get married within a certain age range, and those who don't are often looked down on and talked badly about - As if they wasted their chances when they were younger. But the truth is, not all women misuse that opportunity.* *People need to understand that everyone's timeline is different. The time Mr.A gets married may not be the same as Mr.B's, and the time Mr. K becomes rich might come later than Mr. D's. We need to respect these differences and stop rushing others.*  [source](https://pixabay.com/photos/waiting-wristwatch-man-watch-410328/) *Many societies expect everyone to get married, especially as they grow older, marriage is seen as a ``must do`` in life and this so unrealistic because not everyone find happiness in it, some people find their happiness in their career pursuit while some prefer to wait for the right person but because of society pressure, they tend to rush in with any man who shows sign of interest in them even if they are not attracted or love him... The same pressure that forced them into the marriage is also what made some stay in a toxic relationship because they don't want to be labelled as single mum or dad. Society is often unkind to single parents, especially single mothers. People tend to assume they were promiscuous or irresponsible, which is unfair and hurtful.* *Not speaking for all single mums, but not all are promiscuous; some choose peace of mind over toxicity.* *The best way to break free from unrealistic societal standards and pressure is not to care about it, prioritize self-love, do what makes you happy, grow at your own pace, and distance yourself from people who make you think you are not doing well for yourself. Every progress counts, every small achievement matters.* *Most importantly, do not rush your timeline... I know a guy who is over 40 years but not doing well for himself, he was lucky to get a free 500k from someone and instead of him to invest it in his business, he said he is old enough to get married and be in a true relationship, but the position he is makes that difficult, he got advice from those close to him that he should not venture towards that line but he didn't listen, he got a girlfriend but after few months he exhausted the 500k and lost the lady too.* *He would have a higher chance of doubling the money if he didn't decide to have a girlfriend, and for those wondering how having a gf made him lose the money, having a gf in Nigeria is like employing someone, lol.*  **Just call me Burl.** *I am a professional gamer, motivational speaker and a crypto enthusiast* *Discord: burlarj* *Twitter id: burlarj1* *Telegram: burlarj* **God exists, I am a living testimony** **Giving up is not an option, every hustler has a payday** **Don't wish for it, Make it happen** **Only Love can heal a broken Heart**