When In Need, Start with your own Circle

*Has it ever happened to you that random people you don't know or have never spoken to just reach out to your DMs to seek financial help?*  [source](https://pixabay.com/photos/hands-together-community-touch-5216585/) *And I do not mean big money for medical treatment like surgeries or your landlord sent you packing out, and you need some huge amount to sort your bills, which one person might not be able to solve. I mean a little help as borrowing money to buy something.* *Borrowing money from people is not a bad thing; most people have reached their broke point and need to ask their friends or close ones for help until they can stand on their feet again.* *But what I do not understand is when someone reaches their broke point and they leave their friends and close ones to seek help from someone who doesn't know them or has never held a conversation before. I find this weird, and it has happened to me several times on Hive.*  [source](https://pixabay.com/illustrations/support-help-mountain-climbing-7965543/) *Someone I never knew will dm me asking me to lend them Hive, and we have never chatted before in my dm like that was our first conversation, when I see such message, the first thing that comes to my mind is who onboarded them to the hive platform, can't they ask the person for such help, if their reputation is a bit high, definitely they would have make some friends either on the hive blockchain or even on discord during hang out and chats, why did they leave all those people and feel so comfortable to ask a stranger for help... That is not cool.* *Let us compare this scenario to real life. It is like ignoring all your neighbors, leaving all the people who leave in your street that you do greet and communicate with, that knows where you live and can actually help because they know where to find you if anything goes wrong, you left all those people and move to the fifth street and knock on a random door there to ask the person who opens the door to you for financial help, really weird right?* *When we need help, the first people that should come to mind are those we call friends or people who know us and won't question our identity or intention.* *You have a higher chance of getting help from those who know you and people you relate with than from a stranger.*  **Just call me Burl.** *I am a professional gamer, motivational speaker and a crypto enthusiast* *Discord: burlarj* *Twitter id: burlarj1* *Telegram: burlarj* **God exists, I am a living testimony** **Giving up is not an option, every hustler has a payday** **Don't wish for it, Make it happen** **Only Love can heal a broken Heart**