Through out my entire life I made so many mistakes and still, hoping that it is going to teach me a lesson, and sharing them with relatives and close friends will help avoid the pain and regret that follow from them.
Ignoring good advices whether from friends or family which I truly regret now because I was not yet ready to receive them properly which led me wasting years of life till I finally get to the point where I understand how valuable that advice was.
I learned through my journey the hard way that in real life not what our subconscious create for us “there are opportunities where we never ever get another chance” what we miss in life there is no actual going back.
Valuing my time was one of the major mistakes, the opportunities I missed pretending to have another chance while spending time on things that did not matter at all missing out the chance I had, I have never thought that I am letting my life slip away, because at that moment it felt like it is just one day, one time maybe tomorrow.
It felt like there is always be another day which is another chance, and once I started letting one day or one week went by without taking actions it became easy to let another and then another.
I found that starting calculating costs and benefits in term of time and am more aware of falling into habits and default behavior that start controlling my life is helping me up gathering my shit again.
“A man who dares to waste one hour of time has not discovered the value of life.”