Welcome to another wonderful week on the community, Came across the word Modesty. I decided to write some thoughts and realizations modesty carries.
Modesty to is equivalent to Love, I said this because it can't be bought, neither can it be faked. Modesty is a lifestyle and a precious jewel that should be hung around the neck permanently. A virtue to me can't be compromised or be done on pretense, of it's not a way of life for an individual it's better to be let alone. I say these because a lot of misinterpretation and misconception about modesty has been spread widely in our community services inside the holy places.
Modesty carries different coaches like a train but moves on one but only one track. Different coaches I meant different meaning base on the kind of context it is presented but on the same track meaning no matter the context in which it is defined there's a primary aim which is expression. For some folks, modesty is just primarily a context for dressing responsible. To some also it is an individual reaction towards a provoked situation, intertwined the "humility " with modesty by been respectful to elders and similar age group, which can be a relative/family trait. Well that is just another context.
Another side of modesty comes with elimination of extravagantly living, like the spending way avoid an intented capacity or capability, these aspect is describing modesty as financial mis management pattern.
To some person's it is the quality of having amd exercising the mindset of self reservation for the purpose of acquiring more than exposing blindly or better stated as the quality of being modest is having a limited and not over high opinion on one's self and one's abilities. This mean the removal of pride, excess egoistic attitude if I must say.
So I have noticed that from the attitude aspect to the dress appearance aspect to the extravagance lifestyles to the self management pattern, there's one similar track all these runs on which is "expression" it can't be faked nor run on pretense.
Love is an expression wholeheartedly same as modesty involves expression of one's heart on positivism. When that is fully understood then it can be fixed in different context as pleased.
Modesty is a virtue, what is numerous around our communities to me isn't the real deal, it is just purely on pretense and for maybe done for convincing purpose, the real indecent attitude, sexually explicitness, the real money mis-management is still active up there in the mind. Till it has become a permanent system and mindset pretense is inevitable.
The mind is a world on it's own, for a thing to be expressed legitimately there must be a overhaul or creation (if it has never been in conception before) from within. A man becomes great when he has accepted it from the mind and heart.
After the mindset has started operating in such principles automatically the changes appear generally in all aspect, from the way you speak (confidently) to the way you appear (dress sense) to the way you solve and react to provoked situations. @tarazkp please what's your thoughts on modesty?
Modesty is a genuine expression that can't be compromised.
Thanks for reading through.
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