Take Solitude.
I have come to understand that taking a break or going outside the spotlight for sometime makes one very valuable and demanding. Like the economist and entrepreneurs say " you create the demand then you supply the demand". It is necessary to take solitude to reflect on your journey or phases.
Stepping away can create valuable and more high demand service, that period of solitude isn't a time for relaxation or luxury but for personal improvement associate with solitude.
The system of always creating supply with out creating the option for demand causes instability In transaction. In the aspect of personal enhancement, not being everywhere and everytime is an important pattern of gaining valuability and respect. Base on how corrupt the society is right now, once I mke my presence very much available others tends to ride on your integrity and intelligence. Irrelevant people tend to over familiarize yourself towards them and this give room for disrespect.
In relation to leadership, I've noticed during my service period my direct boss would sometimes take leave permission or excuse for psychological evaluations, even health check ups and family vacation. Being a leader or an associate worker doesn't mean you have to work all through the year with little or no time for restrategizing and enforcement.
There must be a secret time spent on your mind and body evaluation. These works on me and I believe so many other people, the body and mind needs regularly personalize session. I personally ask for a short leave period every month because of the nature of my work that involves working on Saturdays.
I take some time to rest, meditate, solitary aspect and loneliness. This is to reflect and where restrategizing is needed I apply, where more hard work is required I pick point and focus. It has helped a lot to me, because the body isn't built like a machine it needs time for evaluation, intimacy and solitary.
That's why in the football industry, there do have a long break before any important league are announced, they understand how important privacy, solitary or aloneness means. It is not possible to be playing football (Club competition) all year round. There is off season and on season session for athletics.
For education aspect it also needed, been absence makes the educated reflect on the past lessons and prepare for the next semester. Absence should be a strategic tool for advancement and intentional growth.
Consider the entertainment industry, an artist or musician doesn't just releases album regularly, it is managed by the manager, prescribing the best time for release and time for vacation or let's say time off. When you make yourself valuable and important you would find out you have been on a routine of disappearing and appearing always at the perfect time. The main purpose is to create anticipation and demand that's just it.
So in referring to psychology or mental health it is vital for me and you to take solitude on ourselves, take some time off social media or anything sort of distraction, sharpen your edge and become more in demand.
Thanks for reading through.
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