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Such a beautiful experience
The past couple years, I have been on a spiritual journey to find myself and my purpose. Over that time, I have utilized ketamine therapy and psychedelic mushrooms to look deep within myself and to work through past traumas so that I can move past all of that and work towards achieving my higher self. It has been a wild journey so far and I can honestly say that I am not the same person I was when I first started this journey. If you are interested and want to read through some of journeys I have documented, they are listed in order below:
[Mental Health Matters - Ketamine Therapy Session 1](https://peakd.com/hive-195708/@derangedvisions/mental-health-matters-ketamine-therapy-session-1)
[Preparing for my fourth Ketamine treatment](https://peakd.com/hive-194913/@derangedvisions/preparing-for-my-fourth-ketamine-treatment)
[My journey with Ketamine has concluded](https://peakd.com/hive-194913/@derangedvisions/my-journey-with-ketamine-has-concluded)
[My 5 Gram Mushroom Trip Was Insane](https://peakd.com/hive-151602/@derangedvisions/my-5-gram-mushroom-trip-was-insane)
[2.3 gram trip report](https://peakd.com/hive-151602/@derangedvisions/23-gram-trip-report)
[2 Gram Trip Report - Trip down memory lane](http://peakd.com/hive-194913/@derangedvisions/2-gram-trip-report-trip-down-memory-lane)
[Exploring my mind with magic mushrooms](https://peakd.com/hive-151602/@derangedvisions/exploring-my-mind-with-magic-mushrooms)
[My four gram mushroom experience](https://peakd.com/hive-151602/@derangedvisions/my-four-gram-mushroom-experience)
[Merging with God while on mushrooms](https://peakd.com/hive-151602/@derangedvisions/merging-with-god-while-on-mushrooms)
A few weeks ago, my wife and I were on a walk with our grandson at the park near our home and we saw a group that looked like they were setting up for a yoga session at the park. My wife and I have really gotten into yoga the past few years, and this was the second time we saw this group at the park, so we took it as a sign to go up and find out more about what they were doing.
The group was actually setting up for a breath work and sound bath and I was immediately intrigued. Breath work is something that I have been trying to learn more about and I had recently started practicing the Wim Hof method of breath work. After doing the breath work that I had been doing on my own, I always felt a sense of peace within my body and I knew that there were some real benefits that I was tapping into.
We saw that they were planning a retreat that was coming up and we looked more into it. The retreat was going to be three days of yoga, meditation, breath work, astral meditations, Kundalini yoga, sound baths, cold plunges and just connecting with like minded people. This is something that I would normally disregard, but my word for the year is adventure and I knew this was going to be quite the adventure. Little did I know how much of an adventure this would actually be for me and how transformative it would be.
Last Friday, the day of the retreat came and my wife and I made our way up into the mountains where we would spend the next few days. When I pulled into the driveway of the house, I began to wonder to myself if I was even going to enjoy myself while I was there. As I was preparing for this retreat, I knew I was going to be way out of my comfort zone, but I also knew that I was here for growth and you dont grow without leaving that comfort zone.
We arrived as the group was finishing up a yoga. We were greeted by the hosts and they made us feel welcome and at home as they showed us to our room. When we got into our room, they had set up gift bags and blankets for us. Inside the gift bags, there was a journal and other stuff that we would be using throughout the weekend. I could tell that there was a lot of thought and love put into the gift bags and I was beginning to get excited for what was to come.
Then we all met up for introductions and our first group meditation. So we grabbed our journals and gathered together for the first time. I was immediately uncomfortable and I could feel my walls beginning to build. I was thinking to myself that none of the people here cared about me nor could they relate. I had to consciously push those thoughts out of my mind as I sat in the living room staring around the room at this group of strangers.
What called you here?
They asked us to write in our journal and answer some questions. I was called to that space for spiritual growth and community. I was reaching a point in my journey that I knew I needed to surround myself with people that are on the same path because the spiritual path can be pretty lonely in this world. Another reason I was there was to grow closer to my wife and to grow spiritually as a couple. I also knew I needed to work on parts of my past that I had either been putting off, or were hidden so deep down inside, I didn't know how to do the work on it.
What intention feels true in my body, not just in my mind?
I decided my intention was to connect with my higher self while I was here. I didn't have any clue how that was going to happen, but I knew it was something that I wanted to do. I wanted some sort of reassurance that this was the correct path for me.
"What is my heart quietly asking for in this season of my life?"
I want peace. Peace in my mind and my body. I wanted to work on my self worth and to work on loving myself. I have always struggled with how I view myself and how I fit in with my surroundings. I also wanted to expand my heart and learn to love more. I was also searching for guidance in my life.
How do I want to feel after this retreat?
I want to feel peace afterwards but I also want to feel energized for life. I want to feel worthy of the life that I currently have and for the life I am creating.
Who are you?
I am energetic being of light that is infinite. I am a loving soul that is trying to find my way in this world. I am a fun, compassionate, empathetic person that is learning how to help brighten the path for others. I am a student and a teacher. I use my wisdom to help others find the light.
It is cool looking back at how I answered this question at the start of the retreat, because at the end, I really felt like I was embodying that answer.
How do you want to show up on this planet?
I want to show up as a nice person. I want others to remember me as kind and compassionate. I want to be a guiding light for others. I want to be confident, happy, slow to react and a joy to be around.
How do you want to come across to others?
I want them to say that I am a nice person, dependable, reliable, loving, helpful and fun to be around. I want them to be proud of me.
Once we were done answering these questions, we had a short group meditation. I don't really remember much about the meditation, but I recognized some of the music that was playing and it gave me hope that this was going to be a great weekend. The first song I recognized was a version of Hummingbird that I had never heard before. During my early mushroom trips, that song became very special to me. It was the song that broke me and made me realize that my wife is my rock and she will always be there for me and I dont walk this life alone.
Reiki
Once the group mediation was done, we had the chance to meet up with the staff running the retreat for individual sessions. The first thing I went to do was a Reiki healing session. Looking back, I probably should have saved this for later because I dont think I was mentally prepared for it.
Going into this, I really had no idea what Reiki was or what to expect during a Reiki session. I just knew that it had stuff to do with energy and your chakras. The session started with me having to lay on a bed and she began to check my chakras and was telling me to visualize different things. Visualizing is something I have had problems with while meditating and stuff. It is usually just black behind my eye lids, so it was hard at first to see anything. I was expecting visions to just pop in my head on their own, but I quickly realized that I needed to use my imagination and create the visions myself, which was pretty hard to do at first.
She told me that there as a grandmother type energy there with me and that she was proud of me. I lost my grandmother almost 25 years ago and she was probably the closest relative I had growing up, so it was really cool to hear that her energy was there. I got a bit emotional when she told me that.
My chakras were all pretty out of alignment. She had me do some visualization to try and clear the chakras. I would pull energy out of the chakras and rotate them and send energy up to a cloud that I was visualizing. My root chakra was really out of alignment and needed a lot of work. She had me visualize taking a shovel and digging in the sludge that was blocking it.
While doing this, she said that the number six was really important. At the age of six was when I moved around a lot and I attended three different schools for first grade. I realized that six years old was really when a lot of the childhood issues began. That was when we started moving consistently every couple years. A lot of my issues making friends came from that time and was when instability issues began. She said that the number 32 was coming to her as well. It took me a while to realize what that meant, but 32 was when I quit working at the prison and began seeking help at the VA and I started school. So in a way, that was when a lot of my self work actually started. I was far from where I am now when I was 32 though, but I was so messed up mentally at that time.
Breath work
I had done some breath work in the past, but not anything like what I was about to experience. It was a group session and we all grabbed our blankets and laid in a circle around an alter made of crystals and stones. Brock, the instructor, explained how the breathing technique worked. It was a two part in breath and an exhale. The first part of the breath, you breath into your belly and then finish the breath up into your chest and shoulders.
He started the music and guided us with our breath. After about a minute or so, I got into a pretty good rhythm with my breath and was just listening to the music. It only took a few minutes before I started to feel something. My body began to tingle and my hands began to cramp up. He had told us that the hand cramping was natural and that when it happens, to just try and shake it out. If I didn't know that was gonna happen, it probably would have freaked me out.
The tingling sensation of my body became more and more intense until it felt as if my entire body was buzzing just like what I experience during my mushroom trips. I welcomed this familiar feeling and knew that I was doing the breath work correctly. Emotions started to overwhelm me at times and I began to cry. I dont really remember what I was thinking about at the time I started crying. My mind felt like I was in a mushroom trip and it was just bouncing around to so many different things. I was thinking about my past and what I had been through, my present state of my life and the future I was building.
At times it felt as if I was no longer in my body. The buzzing sensation would vanish and there was peace, but then it would return. My hands were cramping pretty bad at times and I remember shaking them out and trying to stretch them. I knew that I was going to be pretty exhausted by the end of the breath work session. My body would shake uncontrollably at times and it would make me laugh to myself between different sessions of crying.
I never truly grasped how powerful the breath could be while not on mushrooms and I am looking forward to learning more about breath work and utilizing it in my day to day life. After the session was done, I felt closer to everyone in the room and felt an immense love for myself that wasn't there before. After the breath work, I knew that this was going to be a great weekend.
Making connections
One of the retreat facilitators was named Pam and I wasn't sure what she did. She was sort of a mystery to me at first. She started talking to me while I was talking with some of the other people attending the retreat. She has a very familiar and safe energy. She began speaking to me and asking questions about my life. She has a way of lowering my defenses and I began crying as I answered one of her questions and that caught me off guard, but once I started to cry, I knew what she was doing.
Pam and I spoke privately a few times during the retreat and she helped me work through how so much of my life was stolen from me at such a young age. She was helping me work through the fact that I was basically still a child when I joined the military and was sent off to war. After speaking with her the first day, I realized that a lot of the reason I was attending this retreat was to work through that trauma so that I could remove the hardness I hold onto to feel safe.
Cold Plunge
The second day we did the cold plunge. I had never done that before and was pretty nervous about sitting in ice cold water for 2 minutes. There are health benefits to doing it and I knew that it was something that I needed to incorporate in my routine, but just had never done it. Everyone was nervous for the cold plunge and I dont think anyone truly wanted to do it.
Faith and I got in the freezing cold water together and sat across from each other. It was so cool to be in the water with her during this. She hates the cold so much, so I knew she was way out of her comfort zone doing this. We sat there hold onto each other's hands and just looked at each other. In that moment, I felt so much love for her and for the healing we were both doing for each other. Time moved a lot faster than I thought and when it hit two minutes, I jumped out, but Faith sat in for almost four minutes. I was so proud of her in there. It really was a battle of the mind to ignore the cold and control your breathing to remind your mind that you are safe. It was awesome seeing her overcome her mind in that moment.
Astral Meditation
This was a really cool experience. It was another meditation where you just visualize stuff and it was cool to be getting better at it and more comfortable with it. I lost the ability to use my imagination because of the military and law enforcement, so it was cool learning tools to get my creativity and imagination back.
During the meditation, she told me there was a two year old girl there with me and that she wanted to thank me. I immediately was transported back to when I was a police officer and I started to cry. One day as a cop, I was dispatched to a house fire and when I got to the home, flames were coming out of the home and a mother and father were outside saying their kids were still inside. I ran into the home and found a scared little girl on the top bunk of her bed. I grabbed her and ran out of the home with her and brought her to her parents. She was deaf and wasn't able to speak to me.
A couple years after that, I was filling up my patrol car with gas at a gas station and a girl that was with her little sister ran up to me and told me she loved the police and that one had saved her little sister from a house fire. I told her that it was me that saved her and she started signing to her little sister and she got so happy and gave me the biggest hug. Being a police officer was a very hard job, but saving that little girl from the fire was one of my proudest moments as a cop.
My best friend that passed away back in 2017 came through as well and told me that I was a warrior and that he was so proud of me. Once Scott died, I realized that I shut out any possible friends and didnt make any attempts to make new ones. I had lost friends all through my childhood and then lost so many friends in the military that I began to feel like if I made friends with people, they would just leave me or die, so I stopped trying. I realized that I deserved to make friends and that I needed to put in the effort to make friends.
SHe told me that there was a male figure that was in a set of blue overalls and I immediately knew it was my grandpa. He told me that he was so proud of me for the work I was doing on myself. He was also proud of the work I am doing to break generational curses.
Then I met the future version of myself. I remember feeling so proud of the healed version of myself. Then he told me that he was the one that was proud of me. He said that without me doing this work now and all the work I had been doing, he wouldnt exist. It was really cool to feel the pride that the healed version of myself has for the version I am now.
We also did some yoga, sound baths and the Kundalini yoga. Kundalini yoga was really cool and I am going to be doing that more often as well. I didnt really have anything significant come up during that session, but it was still fun to learn how to move my spinal energy.
Inner Child Astral Meditation
One of the last things we did as a group was an astral meditation to meet our inner child. Before we started this, we all took time to write a letter to our younger self. In my letter, I told little me how proud I was of him. I never heard that as a child, so I knew that little me needed to hear it. I told him that he is a beautiful soul and that he matters in this world. I told him that the road ahead was going to be so hard, but not to worry because I was going to be with him through it all and that I would always be there supporting him. I told him that the darkness wont take him and that I wouldnt let it. I told him th