Hi Hivelearners friends.
I hope you all are well, I am also well, so today we have been given an interesting topic because we are seeing how much the life of a normal person has been disturbed due to the advent of social media and in the coming time a normal person will not be able to live here because we are seeing that the life of social media is completely different from real life.
Here we see that a poor person works hard and saves some money and gets married. With this little money, he tries to live his life well. He works hard day and night to give a good life to his wife and children. But what has mobile phones done to ruin this? In the coming time, we are now seeing that every person has a mobile phone, especially girls, and on social media, they are seeing what kind of life a girl is living.
We are seeing all these things in dramas, which are kind of unreal. Here, people think of them as real and think that if only we could be like them in our lives and live like them, then what I want to say here is that all these things that are shown in dramas and on social media, in reality, it takes a whole life to achieve them. We cannot achieve them even then. So today, for this reason, we are seeing that the demands of every girl have become so high.
[Source](https://unsplash.com/photos/graffiti-on-a-wall-that-says-fake-3rFq-RHSNLg)
She is of marriageable age, so she doesn't like a boy. If she likes a boy, she doesn't have money, so that girl doesn't marry him. Now here, every person is sharing things about their life on social media, their acquaintances, friends, relatives, all the people are seeing those things, so here we see that because of this, people have started getting jealous a lot and it is causing a lot of damage. So what I am saying here is that the more life is hidden,
The longer it will continue because lives are changing a lot because of jealous people. And here, now every girl is watching the life of social media and she wants her husband to be earning so much money that she can live a peaceful and happy life. Every person has the right to live a peaceful and happy life, but by living within the salary of her husband, there has been so much demand for girls here that by seeing this unreal life, they are ruining their real life too.
If we talk about our country, there are more than one crore girls who did not get married because they did not find a groom of their choice, a rich boy of their choice, so now they are past their prime. It's been 35 years. The more a boy works hard to have a good life, the better his life will be after marriage. But here, the living standards are getting higher every day and no matter how hard the boys work,
[Source](https://unsplash.com/photos/a-man-and-woman-holding-hands-while-standing-next-to-each-other-jXSKcjXAYYI)
They cannot reach there because it is getting higher because of those people who are living a social media life and after watching their videos, they get more money and here we all start thinking that if only our life could be like theirs, it is not like that at all. We have seen videos of many actors, we have seen videos of social media stars who are different in the reels and different on social media, so after seeing their lives,
We should not think that our life should also be like theirs and become calm. If the lives of these people were calm, then here we see that after a few days, actors commit suicide, so what could be the reason? There is also money. Why do people commit suicide even after having everything? So here I am saying that we should live our lives happily, always be grateful and support each other even when we have less things.
Supporting each other in difficult times is real life. Here we see that similar cases are now being seen in the court where the wife wants to get divorced because her husband could not provide her with a good life. And if we look at their house, there is everything that is needed to live a life. But the way social media life is, a beautiful house and a big car, not every person can achieve these things in their life.
[Source](https://unsplash.com/photos/woman-on-bike-reaching-for-mans-hand-behind-her-also-on-bike-AsahNlC0VhQ)
Even a person who works hard day and night can achieve these things after a long time. That is why unreal life has also destroyed real lives. That is why girls are getting divorced and later they definitely realize it. And then when these girls realize that there is no way back, so what I am saying here is that we should watch social media less, because this will not make us suffer from depression,
Especially girls should not watch it because the living standard that we are living is perfect for us because every person has their own life and there are difficulties and happiness in their life, and the life of social media and TV is very different from real life, so we should not end our lives by watching these lives. What I am saying here is that if a person works hard day and night and is giving good clothes and good bread to his wife and children, then this woman should appreciate her husband.
If social media is not controlled in this way, in the future we will see that the divorce rate will increase significantly and the girls who are there, after seeing this lifestyle and looking at their own lifestyle, decide that they do not want to live here and then they make many wrong decisions. At first, they do not realize this, but after time, everyone comes to know that the person who was working day and night and giving a good life is the real life.
[Source](https://unsplash.com/photos/man-and-woman-dancing-at-center-of-trees-BcVvVvqiCGA)
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