Talking about my second worst relationship, I would not forget Sarah in the hallway. So I was just 25 thinking that I have just figured out what my life would be. And suddenly this little pretty girl came into my life. Her name is Sarah. Things started going well. Sometimes we would talk together, go to the bar together, do things together.
But in a couple of months, something weird happened. Sarah was super, super intense. She kept texting me, freaking out, wanted to know where I am every minute. Getting angry if I don't reply her message in minutes. Asking me some tiring questions. And all I was sensing was just jealousy all through.
If I ever mentioned another female around that discussion, she would see that I was cheating on her. And she would go cold, giving me saline treatments during this period. This was so exhausting. One time I decided to hang out with my boys.
And all of a sudden she showed up at the bar on the dance floor. I tried to see if she is all sweet. Then I tried to check up on her. And I did it like that kind of pattern. And what happened finally was she started talking about moving into my house. And at that moment I wasn't prepared to do such. And when I told her, she said I didn't care about her. That I didn't want her. That I wanted to use her.
Because I think she wanted to control everything of my affairs. My life. My family. So I decided to call it off. Because I want my peace. And I had to block her everywhere.
Sarah taught me that it is good to set boundaries when it comes to relationships. Ineed someone to trust me and give me space also. This would be one of my worst relationships ever.
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