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Giving comes from within, we give because we care and not because we have excess. Every dine given out either to family or friends would have solved one or two responsibilities if not given out.
Sometimes, some people may think we give because we have more, need I tell you that resources are never enough for anyone, it's in man's nature to always want to acquire more.
One has to manage or control how one gives to avoid being a foolish giver. When giving, we need to make it appear to the person we are giving that this we are giving is all that we have, if not, they will keep coming back for more with the mindset that you will always make it available to them.
Mind you, the movement they ask and you give a negative response, you become a sudden Vallien or an emergency enemy of the progress that they have not been able to make since the starting date of their lives.
All families have their problems, family problems can not finish nor can it be solved by an individual. If you try being there for everyone and forget yourself, the moment things change for you, you will be forgotten.
Some problems are better left unattended, they will go off by themselves. It is not possible for you to be present for everybody. Ask yourself, are you present for yourself?
Family problems do not finish, do not allow anyone gaslight or guilt trip you into emptying the little you have for them. Use your senses and be financially disciplined.
Thank you for reading, I am @ellizy