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Friendship is very important in everything that one does in life. Infact, I would like to say that there's nothing we can do on earth without friendship. There are different types of friendships today in our world. Friendship plays a vital role and it's significance can't be overemphasized. In this post, I intend to share what friendship means, what are some reasons how we can maintain friendship and finally how one can be tolerant in friendship even in the midst of diverse opinion pools.
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What's friendship? This is a kind of relationship between two individuals in a close range where there's respect, support, love and understanding. Friendship is a bond that exist between two individuals who share certain things as a common ground without any selfish reasons but at the end both are impacted positively. Friendship sometimes goes beyond just the benefits that one could deduce at the end thereof.
We are living in such a time where there are varied friendships which has both positive and negative impacts. I know of so many people that weren't privileged to have good friendship instead they had cheat, destroyers etc. people who had ulterior motive to gratify their personal ego. At the end the friendship Terminated.
to what extent can one maintain friendship?
There are different reasons how friendship can be sustained or maintain. There are basic elements that one must look out for in order to build a sustainable friendship. One of the things that helps or that could help one to maintain friendship is communication. The degree to which one can maintain friendship is determined on the strength of good communication lines that one has. I have seen and heard of different friendships that ended up in dreadluck because there was poor communication. I remember one of the closest person to me whose wedding was barely few days, the whole wedding process was halted because there was not clear communication between the guy, the lady and the church. When the three of them sat together they realized that the wedding can't hold again for some infidelity issues. This issue came up as a result of good communication which affected them negatively. There are whole lots of things kept under the carpet.
Another thing that would sustain good friendship is the degree of forgiveness. The extent to which one could forgive determines how long one can maintain a particular friendship. Forgiveness is what makes friendship last long. If you don't have a forgiving heart, it would be difficult to maintain a healthy friendship.
Reasons to maintain friendship
Is not every friendship that is healthy. To maintain a healthy friendship one must have a honest feedback. Genuine friends correct each other in love and help to cope with any stress or challenges.
A friendship where is trust and loyalty definitely it would lead to good relationships.
conclusion
In conclusion, relationship can end when there are not common grounds between the two people involved. Their variation in ideas, beliefs not every one would have such grace to tolerate. Our individual uniqueness makes it possible for one either sustain a relationship or end it.
Thanks for reading through my entry for week 184 edition 3 from this beautiful community.hOWNTO