Not Everyone Will Understand You, and That’s Fine

 [Source](https://unsplash.com/photos/person-looking-out-through-window-gzhyKEo_cbU?utm_content=creditShareLink&utm_medium=referral&utm_source=unsplash) One of the things I’ve had to accept is that not everyone will understand me, and that’s okay. Sometimes you try to explain yourself to people, but they still get it wrong. They don't see things the way you do , they end up judging you wrongly, especially your silence, your actions, even your kindness.  [Source](https://unsplash.com/photos/silhouette-of-man-looking-star-during-sunset-9b5dvrjb05g?utm_content=creditShareLink&utm_medium=referral&utm_source=unsplash) To be honest , this freeaks the hell out of me. People seeing your heart , intentions , and being handed the benefit of doubt is something your really want But instead, they create their own version of who they think you are. And once people make up their minds, it’s hard to change that. You may be someone who likes peace, who avoids trouble, and stays quiet most times. But others may say you’re proud or too serious. You may speak your mind with honesty, but people say you’re rude. You may choose to walk alone, and they call you strange or think you have issues. ​ Even you are the best , you will still be misjudged and misread by others. And if you keep trying to please everyone or explain yourself every time, you will only wear yourself out. At some point, you have to stop seeking approval from people who are not even trying to understand you. Focus on those who see you clearly, those who know your heart without needing a long explanation. your ability to stray true to yourself is the real deal , and that us what matters. Be honest. Be kind. Do your best. If someone doesn’t see that, it’s not your job to force them. Let them go. The journey you are embarking on is not meant for everybody to walk in and be part of , the same goes to your value , not everyone is meant to see it. Bending , shrinking or changing just to fit into someone else’s idea of who you should be is something you should never ever think of doing. Be yourself. The right people will stay. The right people will understand. And even if no one does right now, understand yourself first. That is enough.