We live in a time when there is a greater need for love, more than ever before. It has to starts with each of us reaching deeper and connecting with our true nature, which is love, and giving our love to others, not because we want anything, but because our cup is full of love and we do not want to keep it to ourselves instead of sharing with others. I invite you today to be the change you would like to experience while in this world, to have love and affection for yourself and others.
I would not be here today to give evidence of how my own love changed my life if it had not happened. For years I held myself - both personally and professionally - while looking for something else; More love. The deeper connection for you, the full self-acceptance. I could not judge people without judging myself. I separate myself from others. I used to be professional loneliness. But deep down, I yearn for love. I wanted more love, more satisfying relationships, more happiness - but I didn't work to see the obstacles inside me getting in the way. Instead, I succumbed to both Imposter Syndrome and, that is WWPT (What Will People Think).
I learned a lot later that the longing for love and the desire for love did not mean that I was always weak. It means I am the person I deserve the love I want. I have learned that there are no self-love requirements that it was my right to ask for what I deserved. But it's hard to ask for something that you think is inside you that you don't deserve.
When we are unhappy with people, we are very sad and it shows in everything we do. Our well-being is at stake. We diminish our light and we receive less than we deserve. the truth is, I was afraid to appear a fool in life because I was afraid of rejection. I just couldn't believe that I was lovable all the time just because of the hardships I had been through. I mean, seriously, if I exposed everything about me to the world, then who would love me? I am fully aware of my weaknesses and my insecurities, so tell me, who can love me?
On this selfish journey, I saw - there is magic in it. people accept us as we come. When you show the love of desire, nature sends you people who will love you as you wish. Who we are, who we say we are, is done by our actions (what we do), by our choices (the people we allow our lives for), and therefore the power we exert.
Learning to love myself has allowed me to invite the love I deserve more in line with the choices I make and therefore the actions I take. now I am ready to be more present, to seek happiness in all that I do, and most importantly to truly point to life and love. the truth is that if I hadn’t learned to love myself - If I hadn’t learned to seek and break the barriers I had set between myself and love - I might not have known what my true language of love is. I would not know what I prefer. I would never know what love is to me.
Sometimes we demand so much from our loved ones - we want them to love and care for us - even when we have never done the same for them. So today, as we value love, as we celebrate love, as you read this, and as we come together hunting for the barriers against love - always be hospitable. Get whatever comes your way and connect with those you tend to. Say yes, and say yes again, say yes to you, say yes to the universe! Yeah, say yes. Because the whole experience was designed to reveal more about who you are. And who you are reveals who you love.
Here is what I needlessly say because of the mistakes I've made - because of the pain I've been through - because of the "things" I haven't experienced yet: I deserve love. I deserve love for all that. Know that you too deserve love, because of what you have been through. Find out what internal barriers are coming your way. Handle the situation gently and do not concentrate on the problem too much. This is one thing I can definitely say: You deserve to be loved.