1️⃣ . What are the top three values that guide your major life decisions, and which value do you find the most challenging to practice consistently?
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2️⃣ Looking back over your life, what are the moments that you are proudest of, where you stayed true to your core beliefs?
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When I think about the values that guide the most important decisions in my life, three stand out strongly: honesty, self-discipline, and loyalty. These values shape how I interact with others, how I treat myself, and how I handle challenges.
Honesty is a value I hold close because I believe truth builds trust. Whether it is in personal relationships, work, or even in small everyday situations, being truthful helps maintain respect and integrity.
Self-discipline is another guiding principle for me. It is the ability to control impulses, stay focused, and make choices that support long-term goals rather than just short-term comfort. Without discipline, it becomes easy to procrastinate, give in to bad habits, or avoid responsibilities. Discipline is what helps me stay on track, whether it’s maintaining good health, achieving personal goals, or managing time wisely.
The third value, loyalty, shapes how I value relationships. To me, loyalty means standing by people I care about, showing consistency, and not turning away when things get tough. Loyalty builds deep trust and meaningful bonds, which are hard to replace.
These three values together guide my actions, even when living them out isn’t always easy.
Which value do you find the most challenging to practice consistently?
The Value I find most challenging to practice consistently is Honesty. The world today often rewards half-truths, exaggerations, or keeping quiet instead of speaking openly. Sometimes being completely honest can hurt someone’s feelings, cause conflict, or even create disadvantages in competitive environments. This makes it a real challenge to stick with honesty while also balancing sensitivity and practicality.
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When I look back over my life, the moments I feel most proud of are the times I was able to stay true to myself and not give in to peer pressure. Growing up and even as an adult, there are always situations where people around you try to influence your choices. Sometimes it is about small things like how you dress or what activities you take part in, and other times it is about bigger decisions that could affect your future. For me, staying strong in those moments has shaped the person I am today.
One of the most memorable times was during my school years when friends tried to convince me to join in things that went against my values. Whether it was skipping classes, getting involved in unhealthy habits, or simply doing something that I knew wasn’t right, the pressure was real. Saying “no” was not easy, because nobody wants to feel left out or different from the crowd. But each time I chose to stand firm, I felt a sense of strength and self-respect. It showed me that real confidence comes from within, not from trying to fit in with others.
As I got older, the type of pressure changed but the principle remained the same. In social settings or school environments, there are always shortcuts or trends that seem tempting but don’t align with my core beliefs. Choosing to remain disciplined, to stay loyal to myself, and to avoid dishonesty even when it would have been easier, are moments that continue to give me pride. These experiences proved that protecting my beliefs wasn't easy but was essential and it's paying off.