"Heaven is between a Black Woman's thighs, said Dr. Yosef Ben Johanan an Afrikan historian. What does this mean? Dr. Johanan may have meant the ethnicity. Whatever he meant, it means much more. Inside the womb of any woman is the dark place where life begins. As mentioned in an earlier chapter the sacred marriage of the union of male and female can bring bliss. This union within us is this union which is heaven. Being with a complete woman of any ethnicity can bring this alchemical sacred marriage. A man first has to be a complete man before he can be with a complete woman. A woman has to also be a complete woman to be with a complete man. Water seeks its own level and it is all about balance. Women want a guy who will make her feel like a princess. This guy is confident, well mannered, intelligent, a kind heart and sense of humor. He's the one to hold her when she's upset and make her feel safe. Remember, women will come to you when you are the best you can be. There is a difference between confidence and being arrogant as I said earlier in this book. Women like when men have audacity as long as it's in the realm of respect. Men want a woman who is confident and comfortable in her own skin, down to earth and sweet, sensitive to his needs, intelligent, unmaterialistic, spontaneity, sensuality, and independent and supportive.