Against the Current: My Story of Choosing Independence

@freecrypto · 2025-09-17 17:55 · FreeCompliments

Decision making is absolutely fundamental to our life and in almost every aspect we are required to be figuring out the things that we want to be doing and their can be consequences to the actions that we are choosing and that is what decision making is all about but in the same time there are a lot of factors that are going to be playing a big roll in that decision making aspect which is going to be making it something that can actually be very much logical and the same time it can be something that can be very much stupid and sometimes it can be a very brave call that we make.

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The Brave decisions that we meet in our life are actually something that definitely are not very much easy enough to be doing but at the same time they also carry risk which is something that we are aware of and rather than moving away from something which is actually going to be a safe path for us which choose these kind of things which is actually going to be very much hard enough for us to be facing but at the same time we want to be doing it because even though it is something that is not really easy for us we want to be facing those fears.

Whenever I think about a particular time in my life when I actually made a brave decision then it is something that is going to be having a lot to think about because A people will definitely have something plastic or very dramatic enough to be thinking about a brief decision that they have made in the lives but for me it was definitely not that much dramatic but at the same time it was very much meaningful and influential for me and was actually something very difficult for me to be making which was actually just to be deciding the fact that I am going to be living my life on my own terms.

This has always one of those things that I wanted to be doing but at the same time it was not very easy for me to be asked me implementing because of a lot of other factors that are involved in it because there are a lot of people in my life who have been there since a very young age of mine and have been calculating every single move that I have to be making but after little while it became something that seemed to me as something too much of a controlling aspect which was a thing that I was not liking very much.

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There have been a lot of times when I wanted to just let go off that control and make them understand the find the time want to be making decisions on my own as well along with the fact that I want to be doing whatever I want and things that are going to be impacting me should be decided my my ownself but that was something that never really happened which is my it was something that was not very easy for me to be asking implementing.

All of this actually started by making a simple decision of my own self and also not choosing the path that others planned for me which was something that has happened all my life before this particular point because of which it was something that made me face a lot of consequences as well and at the same time it was one of the first independent moves that I ever made in my entire life.

For making that happened I tried to have a conversation with my own pain and sub out the bank that I wanted to do something else apart from what they plan for me and it was based on a lot of things including my career and an overall level I wanted to do something complete the different then what they had plan for me and then conversation which I needed a lot of courage or but somehow are managed to have it one day and trying to have that on the situation and made them realise the fact that I want to do something else but they will not very support your dad in any way and even in the end and didn't whatever I want to do even without their approval to a very big extent.

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This really was the bravest decision that I ever made because I new for a fact that I am not going to be having any kind of support for the things that I am going to be facing after this and also the fact that I am going against someone who actually raised me for a really long period of time and made all the decisions behalf of me and that I never fall into any situation that is going to be difficult to control and having all these things in mind I still decided to do what I did and it was really very much brave enough for me is what I felt.

There are many such situations in our life when it obviously feels very scary to decide something but that is when our courage is going to be playing a massive role to be helping us make that decision which is something that becomes very much important and time because we have to be over coming over fear and moving a hand with what we actually want to be doing because that is something which is going to be necessary for us and if we just do let our fear control us then there will be a lot of things that we would actually never be doing which we actually wanted to.

Ultimately that was definitely the biggest and most bravest decision that I ever made in my life till now and that is something which made me realise a lot of things about life itself because there are a lot of reasons why we don't want to be making those decisions which seem to be something that can actually have consequences but at the same time if that is what will want to be doing and we need to be doing we should be doing it at the end because we should not be thinking about disappointing other people but at the same time it is actually much more than that I am saying true something that is going to be very much important.


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