So lately , I was reflecting on a recent happenings and I can't help but share it here on hive. do you believe in generational curses, or is it just our mind playing tricks on us? I am asking because of these two examples I am about to relate, they are real life stories.
The first is a lady who came from a separated family. Her grandmother left her grandpa, her mother also left her father while they were still very little and now she too is separated from her own husband. It feels like a cycle repeating itself.
The second is a 24-year-old friend. In her family, once a woman clocks 25 years without getting married, she supposedly stays single for life. Three of her aunties are a living proof all still single in their 50s and 60s. Now, she’s worried and desperately searching for a man before the year runs out. Before she clockes 25 years.
These stories made me wonder if curses are truly curses passed down through bloodlines? Or are they patterns created by fear, mindset, and the projections we carry from our families?
Personally, I believe we can choose to live differently. The fact that it happened to people before us doesn’t mean it has to happen to us. With awareness, faith, and deliberate action, we can break cycles. Yes the circle can change when we take action and stop allowing fear take control of us.
So what do you think? Are generational curses real, or are they just in our minds?