What's Other People's Perspective About You// LOH Contest #261.

You know this saying that it's people around you like your friends that will tell you who you are, Yess I tried knowing the type of person that I am through others and what I did was just straight up, I think I asked three different course mate of mine the things the don't like about me and would want me to change, my aim was to know the kind of person I am because left for me I am okay, I don't have anything wrong with me, if we were left to check out those things we need to adjust by ourselves we would definitely not point them all out so I would recommend my method of asking people around you not necessarily those you are close with but people that sees you everyday and just watches, well for their responses why don't we find out for ourselves, so for this week's prompt I would be participating on the contest topic: 2️⃣ Do you have a negative thought about yourself? What is it, and are you doing something to reframe that and adopt a more positive outlook?  What are those things you don't like about me and you think I need to adjust? Yeah that was the question I asked a lady and two guys and what I received as response in return wasn't pleasant to the ears, I mean the truth is always bitter I almost didn't accept that it was me that they were describing but anyways I had to accept reality, one of my main reason for having to asked that question is because I wanted analysing who I was and how people see me after which I would adjust those aspects that are discomforting. I think I got pride from two people they said I have pride. I also got another negative aspect of me where the lady told me that I don't like sharing (when it comes to knowledge and friends), at this point I actually find that not true because everyone mustn't operate in the same level where I open my heart out to everyone, Noo it doesn't work that way where am from but nevertheless I have accepted that and I politely told her I would be more flexible. You know in all these am so happy that I got the sincerity from people and am sure after having such heartfelt conversation with them they would be more free around me and with me when we resume school next, I would have ride on and ask more people but I felt I have been fed enough to have to work with it first and by the grace of God I am trusting God to adjust in those negative areas in my life which waters down the positive ones, I know nobody is perfect but we are all walking towards perfection so I hope to be someone's role model or even mentor one day and I think the working starts from here. It's nice having you here, I hope it was worth the ride, thanks everyone and I wish you all a blessed plus favoured week as we step into the week. All Images used here belongs to me.