As an elderly woman who has been married for so many years, I totally condemn domestic violence. This sort of thing happens in many marriages but in my little knowledge, I think those people are not Godly enough.
If they are Godly, they will know that domestic violence is bad and they wouldn’t also give Satan a chance to interrupt in the marriage. Any marrige where domestic violence exists, it means Satan is already sharing a space with them in that marriage and the Satan never has any good plan for people and their marriages than to destroy it and ruin it.
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It is God that commands a husband to love his wife as he loves himself and it is written in the Bible too.
Ephesians 5:28 tells us that; “So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.”
God wants our husbands to love thier wives. A man won’t beat, hurt or harm whoever he loves. If God orders a man to love his wife, he should do just that.
Marriage is beautiful and it gets more beautiful when God exists in that marriage. In a marriage where there is God, there will be love.