while I was skeptical about writing this cause you see a lot of people believe that whatever you might say to them is from the stand point of a motivational speaker, they feel that you don't really understand what they're going through, just offering some consolation words to make them feel better, so how do I offer my words to anyone out there to let them know I can relate based on the grounds of experiences
what really prompt me to write this, is from a short clip video I just watched and I feel I should relate this info to everyone reading this, summary of everything in the video is,
whatever you're going through in life go through it with diligence, I know times are hard, money is scarce, everything is not making sense, nothing is working, in those hard trying times go through them with the mindset of breaking forth anytime soon, learn in the pain, suffering in the tears, let all that is happening build character, resilience, cultivate a mindset of a victor, be open to learning as much as you can, embrace knowledge with all your might, cause a time will come you will be needing those experiences to give you an edge in life over some circumstances cause when you're speaking from experiences it validates facts faster than circular knowledge.
I often tell people that nothing in life last forever, so whatever you're experiencing going through, knowing fully well that it's just a phase it will surely pass, but in those times please embrace learning in whatever aspect necessary, tough times don't last for ever tough people do, there's something resilience does to people there's a might it builds in you, a strong bonding spirit in you that never allows just anything be, it builds that might, the courage to withstand any storm till it subsides.
the pessimist sees the storm and is afraid filled with negative thoughts, the optimist sees the storm and says to himself it will change, while the tough guy adjust the sail to the direction of the storm and sail through.....
my reality in life is that life is way older than every human being on earth both past present and future, every occurance in life is never new, there is nothing new under the sun, whatever it is that you're going through trust me someone somewhere has gone through that exact same thing, so its not just you there are hundreds of person scattered around the world going through that something, but what makes the difference is how tough you will be in the those moments, that's what makes the difference, to stand and to over come till the storms fades behind you, pls make up your mind to never give up, whatever it is face it stand in do all you can to keep standing till the end....
no body claps for you on the run way, they are all waiting for you at the finish line to cheer you up, so even tho you seem all alone now, tho you feel abandoned forgotten, left out not regarded, don't worry, if you persist you will get the medal that's for sure, to anyone out there this is from me to you, there's is surely a light at the end of the tunne, there is ways a way out , you're not alone ....keep up the energy.
