So life has a funny way of throwing a hard curve ball on you when you least expect it. So let’s picture this scenario: you and I are on a bus, just daydreaming, and you are just cruelly on your foot and suddenly you realize that you’ve missed your stop. Your heart started racing and for a second you might feel like the world is just giving in. But here is the whole thing, when you miss your stop, this is not the end of the story.
Instead of sitting around feeling overwhelmed, regretting, you just have to get off at that next stop, you take a deep breath, then you plan and figure out how you get back on track. This scenario is not just about a bus ride lesson, it is more of a life lesson, this to show that nobody is perfect, not you, not even I, not the person who always thinks they have it all and you know what, life is okay, there is a reason why most friends will have egoism on top of it.
The cars have also revised gears and the computer has a backspace button because they are all part of human being, they are not roadblocks but they are a stepping stone to make things clear after making a mistake. So each of these steps is a chance to keep growing and keep moving towards in life to what makes you happy genuinely.
So you have to think about it, when you erase that wrong word, you don’t throw the pencil away, when you back up, you can, after taking that wrong turn, you are not expected to also abandon the journey and when you hit the back button on the wire, you are not expected to shut down the computer because you made a mistake, you just have to try again till you. Life always works that same way.
Missing the map doesn’t mean you are a complete failure in life, it means you are in the motion, you keep trying, you keep living and keep growing. So what do you do when you are in the position that you missed the bus stop in life, maybe you flopped out of the job, or you said something that the head up will get him, or didn’t even meet the important goal that you set for yourself. You need to get up at this moment if you want to get off at the moment and stop.
Reflect on your life and find your way back in. It is the amount of time you find your way back in that truly matters. Maybe that means you need to ask for help, rethink your approach, or just laugh out and mess up and try again. So the beauty of life is that it’s full of chances, second chances always. At first you are willing to get up and change, then life will change. Life will change.
The life will always give you what you want, and every detour can lead you to somewhere. Remember, perfection isn’t the goal. Happiness is finding a way to be happy. And happiness doesn’t come from getting over yourself. It comes from embracing your own journey, your quirks and all.
So the next time you see yourself in a messed up situation, don’t cry over that messed. Just to save yourself, take that next step and keep going. And the road to your happiness is wide open, waiting for you to go through it and end well.
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