The teaching of Brother Eli about the source of hatred when it comes to our relationships, especially when we talk about marriage, it gives us a deeper understanding of what truly influences our behaviours as humans.
https://youtu.be/ID0MsC4enC8?si=o43-2I1zAm0gn6OJ
When people try to explain domestic violence or the sort of hatred that occurs in marriage, there are some psychological reasons, but the early mid-discussion is talking about it in a spiritual perspective.
According to him, God's design for marriage is rooted in love, respect and unity. A husband is commanded to love his wife just as he loves somebody. In Ephesians 5:8, when a man loves himself, he will do nothing to harm himself. His wife is completely outside the will of God.
Brother point is clear that when hatred brews in our hearts, that one's love is not the influence of God, but of the work of Satan. Hatred, violence and all convictions are from the enemy to destroy and cause confusion in our lives.
In James 3:15-16 and Ephesians 2:2, it shows that there is a spirit working in people who have decided to choose disobedience. This reminds us that we should be spiritually watchful and pray. Hatred does not grow overnight. It is planted by the enemies.
This is a reminder that love comes from God and hatred, violence comes from Satan. We should really hold on to the commandments of God and his teachings so that we can protect ourselves from the plans of the enemy.