Imagine a world where money is planted, and it grows like a tree, and everyone can access it the way you access fruits. Would money still hold any value? You already know the answer. Of course not.
The reason why money is perfect is because it's cast and it's hard to get. This is the principle of humans too, and presence. Your time and your energy is valuable when it is scarce. Scarcity will increase your success more. And when you know about this, your life can be transformed.
So think about it. When you give out your time and energy to people too much, it dilutes your value. When you give yourself too much to people, your spark will go out. You will get lost in the crowd. But when you choose to show up, only when you're valuable, or your energy is reciprocated, and when you step back, sometimes you become magnetic.
Then people will start to appreciate your presence. It's because it's a gift that is valued. This is one of the magic of scarcity. Do it just like money, your attention and time is very valuable. And money is precious. You have to spend it wisely.
One of the good rules is that you should always withdraw your presence from where you are not appreciated or respected. You don't need to argue or try to explain your value to others. Your silence is enough. Your distance speaks louder than words. You could explain yourself to those who do not value you.
When you walk away from those toxic relationship environments, or situation you are not just being good but you're being wise and doing the right thing to increase your value. You are protecting your peace and you are regaining your power. Your absence becomes an energy that needs to be valued and not to be squandered.
Sometimes life can be messy. People will try to push your boundaries and cause chaos in your life but you don't have to try to pull yourself or any at any point but you have to choose where you invest your energy. Choose yourself always, you're just saying that peace matters. Your happiness also matter.
This is not selfishness, this is self-love. You're trying to prioritize your well-being. You are creating space for better things, for more bigger opportunities you're open for a healthy relationship and not a toxic one. And this is how you live a fulfilling life at the end of it all.
Just like money, you should also take a lesson from there, be around where only where you're valued, guard your time like, don't be don't hesitate to walk away from where you're disrespected with your head's high sometimes let your silence do the talking. By doing the work alone and sometimes you'll be amazed about how this might lead to your prosperity quickly.
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