My Strengths, My Superpowers

We get carried away by the things we can’t get or haven’t achieved, and we forget to give ourselves some grace. We forget to applaud ourselves for being amazing and being a blessing to others. > What are the kindest, coolest or favourite things you could say about yourself? Life is too beautiful to constantly complain and beat yourself up for the “what-ifs” and definitely too short to look down on yourself. No matter how bad you think you are or the circumstances surrounding you are, you still have some amazing qualities. It’s so sad that you tend not to pay attention or appreciate these qualities of yours because you're too busy criticizing yourself. Your self-criticism gets in the way of you seeing how much of a good human being you are, not just to your immediate family but everyone around you too.  I have some important traits lined up. The first on my list is empathy. I like to consider myself a very empathetic person. This trait has helped in making human connections easier and better for me. Empathizing with people sort of happens naturally for me, and it happens every time with or without my consent. While I cannot solve everyone’s problem at a go, I always empathize with them. A lot of times people don’t need a ton of advice as they’ve gotten a lot of that to last them a lifetime, they just need someone who gets them, someone who is kind enough to put themselves in their shoes, no judgment, no criticism just abundant love.  I don’t only empathize with people I know. I extend it to others too. While a lot of people may have their reservations about being empathetic, I see it as a superpower that many people lack. Furthermore, I consider myself a kind person. I don’t know where the world is heading, but I refuse to join the rest of the world in seeing kindness as a form of weakness or foolishness. I’ll continue to tell whoever cares to listen that it doesn’t cost you anything to be kind. I dislike unkind people and people who have no compassion. I don’t care what you think, but lacking compassion for others is not nothing to be proud of. I wish people could understand how fickle life is. Being kind does not hinder you from being who you are, instead, it makes you a good person. Additionally, I am a loveable person, hehehehe sorry to brag but I am🥰  I have so much love in me and I wish I could share it with everyone out there. It’s crazy out there, people are consumed with so much hate that they don’t know what love feels like anymore and that’s so sad. If you ever find your way into my life and heart, you are locked in and there’s no going back! I call it the IB effect, the little waves of excitement you get from being around me, it’s hard to miss and very infectious. It’s when I make you very comfortable and my love and energy radiates over you, lol at this point I’m definitely bragging!😂😂 In conclusion, I have so many beautiful traits, and I wish everyone who comes in contact with me could experience them. What about you reading this post, What are the kindest, coolest or favourite things you could say about yourself? I’d love to read your thoughts in the comment section. There you have it, guys, a little snippet into Ibbtammy’s life❤️ _{All images are mine except otherwise stated.} **Thanks for stopping by** **Loads of Love🥰🥰** **XOXO**