Ghost of disrupting the adventure plan

Life is not a video game where everything is predetermined. There is uncertainty in life, and many things can happen, and it can also be unexpected. We need to accept the uncertainty because we cannot eliminate it completely, but it does not mean we can't plan for our lives. We all have the right to make plans for our future and try to be prepared for uncertainty or reduce the consequences of uncertainty if it's something negative. Right? Planning is a good thing, and chasing the money is necessary also, but now we are chasing money so desperately that we are doing the same types of things every day, and it's like we are running in a cycle, and every cycle restarts with morning. So sometimes we decide to go for an adventure or tour for refreshment.  [ImgSrc](https://pixabay.com/photos/planning-plan-adjusting-aspirations-620299/) There is a saying that no adventures and tours occur by making a plan. It's not fully true, but it's not wrong either, because most of the time planned adventures and tours are canceled at the end. Sudden plans of adventures or tours are successful most of the time. Why does it happen like that? I am sure most of you have the experience of it. What's the actual reason for it? Have you ever thought about it? Today I am going to discuss it. Suppose there are 10 friends who decided to visit a certain place for an adventure or tour. The plan is for everything to be perfect, and the plan is supposed to work. All of a sudden one of them says he cannot manage the money for the adventure or tour and says not to go. It's not the end. He also influences the person who is very close to him, or the person is automatically influenced by the decision, and that person also decides not to go by showing an excuse. If two people are not going, then it's okay, but they leave a negative energy there, and others also find a reason to delay the plan to go together.  [ImgSrc](https://pixabay.com/photos/poverty-black-and-white-emotion-4561704/) Suppose there is no financial issue. In the case there can be someone who has an important task to do on that day. So that friend suggests going on an adventure or tour on another day. This solution seems quite simple, but the other 9 people also have their lives, and they also have their busyness. On the other days, other friends also have tasks to do, and they scheduled everything, keeping the date of the tour in mind. The sudden change is not in their favor. So managing on other days is also not so easy, and each day someone has something important to do, and like that, an adventure or tour plan keeps getting delayed. Weather is very important in case of going on an adventure or a tour. Most of the people don't consider the weather in the first place, and a change in the weather can easily disrupt the plan. I think at the present time, predicting the weather is not so difficult under certain conditions, which can give us insight about the weather on that certain day. I believe that it should not be taken lightly.  [ImgSrc](https://pixabay.com/photos/frogs-group-fun-travel-suitcase-897981/) Another thing is mindset. I think most people agree to go on a trip when all of a sudden the plan is made. But when they get the time, they think deeply about and can remember they have some task on the specific day. They want to delay, but they don't speak because they promised. They just want others to disrupt the plan, and they just wait for the opportunity. And they take the opportunity and blame the person for disrupting the plan. They just play the game from the safe side. They are just a few reasons why plans for adventures or tours are disrupted all the time. I think it's necessary to have a friend circle who are very eager to go for adventure and best manage everything for it. If someone disagrees with the plan, he should be out of the plan immediately rather than convincing him. The person who has the mindset to go will go even actually at the end.  [ImgSrc](https://pixabay.com/photos/to-go-biking-poppy-leisure-time-5178398/) Why am I saying this today? Tomorrow I am going on a tour, and some tried to disrupt the plan. I am the leader of this tour, as I am managing everything. Everything is ready, and I created a WhatsApp group for easy communication. Two people suggested delaying the plan with an explanation, and I just kicked them out from the group because they will spread negativity with time. So, now we are going on a tour tomorrow.