Transparency is not worth losing privacy

Every relationship is important, and it needs to be maintained properly. Depending on the relationship, it requires different things, and in the case of a partner, as well as a life partner or future life partner, trust is the most important thing in the relationship. In this kind of relationship, thoughts can be different from person to person, as everyone has their unique thoughts as well as their unique personality.  [ImgSrc](https://unsplash.com/photos/a-black-and-white-photo-of-a-sign-that-says-privacy-please-JFk0dVyvdvw) It says that transparency in a relationship is needed, as it can strengthen the relationship. Being transparent helps partners to avoid misunderstanding. From one perspective, it is a very good thing, but it can be the opposite if we think about it from a different perspective. There is another important thing, which is privacy. And in this digital world, having privacy has become more important, as maintaining privacy is the most difficult thing. The most difficult question is, is it ok to maintain privacy even in a relationship between partners? The one simple answer is that privacy should be maintained at any cost. So this is somehow conflicting with transparency. If there is full transparency in a relationship, then there is no privacy between partners. And if there is privacy between partners, then there is no full transparency. One thing is very clear: that a relationship between partners cannot maintain full transparency and privacy at the same time. Which one should one person choose? Privacy or transparency? Is it okay for partners to share everything between them? Just like sharing a Facebook password or other personal account password? In my opinion, I think every human is individual, and nobody is a 100% match for each other. So differences between natural and having different thoughts on a topic are also expected. Many times, a boyfriend/girlfriend/partner asks for the password of a personal social media account. Some people think that one should share because it's a sign of complete trust in a partner. Is it the real scenario? I think you just made a totally ridiculous statement. I was never in a relationship, but I can say very well that such a thing is against privacy, and when something goes against privacy, it is not a healthy relationship. Asking for the password of a social media account is not a sign of trust. It's the sign of doubt. The thing is very clear: a partner is doubting that the partner is cheating, and that's why, for security purposes, they are asking for the password. And that means zero trust in the partner, and I believe that it is better to end a relationship with someone who doesn't trust their partner well. I know there are some lovebirds also who may disagree with the statement, saying that it's necessary. I find it funny when I see people also try to defend themselves by supporting this statement. It's like they are doing the wrong thing; that means things will be just right, saying or supporting this. Wrong means wrong, and it doesn't matter if you are on the wrong side of the right side. Just because you are on the wrong side won't change the truth. My statement is very clear about it, and privacy is very important, and it is more important than being transparent.