Hello friends, today is Throwback Thursday and I want to share a beautiful memory of my sister Thais with you. What's so special about it that I'm sharing it with you today? Well, today marks the anniversary of her passing.
Hello friends, today is Throwback Thursday and I want to share a beautiful memory of my sister Thais with you. What's so special about it that I'm sharing it with you today? Well, today marks 18 years since she passed away. Death sometimes comes without warning, and this was the case with my sister, as she wasn't ill. I'll tell you her story.
In the photo, she's with her daughter on her 15th birthday, a girl whose father refused to acknowledge her and always denied her existence. My sister was a single mother, and with my mom's help, she was able to raise her daughter. She met a man online, a Mexican, who came from his country the day before her 15th birthday, and we all met him and liked him very much.
We had many doubts about the young man since it was an online relationship, but over time he has proven to be a responsible person, and he treated my sister very well during the short time they lived together. They got married, and a year later my sister became pregnant.
We were all happy because a new member was coming to the family. What we never imagined was what would happen next. On the day of the delivery, my sister had to have a C-section because of the baby's large size and because it had been more than 15 years since she had her first daughter. Things got complicated, and she had a reaction to the anesthesia; it took a few hours before they could move her to a room.
After she was discharged, she went home to enjoy her new baby girl, but a few days later she started feeling tired and complaining of back pain, which we thought was from carrying the chubby baby. Three months later, my sister started turning purple, her nails and lips turning blue, and they called the doctor, who said it was the flu. They took her to the clinic, where they said she needed surgery to try to stop a blood clot and that they should do a lung scan because that's where it was heading.
There wasn't time for anything, as she died that morning from a pulmonary thromboembolism. Just three days after giving birth, only three months after her baby was born. The father, very responsible, took care of the baby, and now she's a lovely 18-year-old girl. Very studious, very intelligent, and diligent.
They say that those who are always remembered never truly die, and they're absolutely right. My sister is always in our hearts, and every time we see her youngest daughter, she reminds us that everything has a solution except death, and that not everything you find online is bad; you just have to trust in God and nothing else.
This is my entry for my friend @lanzjoseg's #TBT contest. All content is my own unless otherwise stated.
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Hola amigos, hoy es día de TBT y quiero compartir con ustedes un hermoso recuerdo de mi hermana Thais. Qué tiene de especial para que hoy lo comparta con ustedes ? Bueno, hoy se cumplen años de su partida de este mundo.
Hola amigos, hoy es día de TBT y quiero compartir con ustedes un hermoso recuerdo de mi hermana Thais. Qué tiene de especial para que hoy lo comparta con ustedes ? Bueno, hoy se cumplen 18 años de su partida de este mundo. La muerte a veces llega sin avisar, este fue el caso de mi hermana ya que ella no estaba enferma. Les contaré su historia.
En la foto ella está con su hija el día de sus 15 años, una niña que su papá no quiso reconocer y siempre la negó. Mi hermana fue madre soltera y con la ayuda de mi mamá pudo sacar a su hija adelante. Conoció a un hombre por internet, un Mexicano, quien se vino de su país el día antes de los 15 años y todos lo conocimos y nos cayó muy bien.
Teníamos muchas dudas del muchacho ya que fue una relación por la red, pero con el tiempo ha demostrado ser una persona responsable y con mi hermana se portó muy bien el poco tiempo que vivieron juntos. Se casaron y al año mi hermana salió embarazada.
Todos nos alegramos porque vendría un nuevo miembro para la familia. Lo que nunca nos imaginamos fue lo que vendría después. El día del parto a mi hermana le hicieron cesares por el gran tamaño de la bebe y porque ella tenía mas de 15 años de haber tenido a su primera hija. Las cosas se complicaron y ella tuvo reacción a la anestesia, tardó unas horas para que la llevaran al cuarto.
Luego que la dieron de alta se fue a su casa a disfrutar de su nueva niña, pero a los días comenzó a sentirse cansada y se quejaba de un dolor de espalda que pensábamos que era por cargar a la niña que estaba gordita. A los 3 meses mi hermana se comienza a tornar morada, las uñas y los labios y llamaron al médico y dijo que era una gripe. La trasladaron a la clínica y allí dijeron que tenían que operarla para tratar de frenar un coágulo de sangre que tenía y que le hicieran un Cintilograma en los pulmones porque hacia allá se dirigía.
Por ahí dicen que no se muere el que siempre se recuerda y tienen toda la razón. Mi hermana está presente en nuestro corazón y cada vez que vemos a su hija menor nos recuerda que todo tiene solución menos la muerte y que no todo lo que consigues en las redes es malo, solo hay que confiar en Dios y nada más.