Many times things happen to us and we don't know why they happen to us and suddenly when those things hit us in the face, and it hurts us a lot. It is important to be alone, as important as knowing how to be acompañado.Si you love yourself, you take care of yourself and you don't accept bad loves.What value do you give to yourself or to yourself? As a woman I am happy that I have two "beautiful ovaries" I have nothing to compete with any man. The mirror needs to be checked. What is a good mirror? Your partner, the man who accompanies me. I don't have the slightest doubt. Why? Because self-esteem can be measured by the degree of bad loves that you endure. The higher self-esteem, the less resistance that they are screwing up your life. When you do not love yourself, it is useless to expect love, much less respect from others. I like my achievements and I also like that they take care of me, open the door for me, pay for my dinner and give me space to rest my worries and joys on a partner's shoulder. My partner is a complement, he is company, support, love in difficult moments and overcoming them, because I am complete, only that my partner helps me to get the best out of me, and everything with him, is better. Being in a couple is to enhance, not to cancel each other out. Both man and woman were born to complement each other, this what I write about in this post is about human evolution, the people who sell the opposite of this, just want the extinction of humanity. We are all born complete, but we are human beings with wounds or shortcomings that make us think that we need the other, when in fact other human beings contribute to us either for good or for bad, and that is where we must be prudent and act in our favor and stay away from who is not good in our lives. After writing lines about my thoughts, emotions and actions, I leave my reflection for today for you. >“A woman is not complete with a man, or vice versa, she is complete with herself." I love myself with my flaws and virtues😚 We all get scared when the good thing comes, but you have to remember the resources you already have and that you deserve it, you deserve it. You pretend to be treated well and you treat the kicking world. Everyone gets what he gives. And in theory (but it does not justify) he gives what he gets.... But...I say: treat how you want to be treated. I value the affection of my family, I have a tribe of unsurpassed friends and it makes me feel good to have the love of my partner and my earthly angels (very close affections) 24 hours a day. Learning to be accompanied is necessary to have a full life, and do you allow it? Janitze 🦋
Any images in this post are taken with my iPhone 12, the Infinix pro-note 30 or with the camera Rolleiflex 2.8 f, and edited with Canva
Separator made with Canva by @janitzearratia
Translation with |DeepL