>Everything we do, everything we touch and everything we invoke, he is listening to us. I know a person, very close to me who is 🤨 pure complaints, and more complaints. And the worst thing, of all, is that others are always to blame for what happens to her and she the.poor victim, by the way, is someone very close to my paternal family. I already told him, stop complaining and self-pity, get your act together and do what you have to do to let go of failure, fear, sadness and lack of will. I do not know what situations you are going through, I also do not know if it is possible or impossible to get out of where you are, but what I do know is that staying without doing anything will still leave you absolutely fucked up or fucked up as you are right now. So do something, invent a pod, whatever, leave the buts and move on. Do what you have to do, but do it well, do it with excellence. And if you have to start from scratch, at least do it with dignity. It's not the work, that you have in front of you, to improve, it's how you do it, to get out of so much passivity and inaction. Do not stay in mediocrity due to lack of resources, it is lack of self-love. And if you're rebuilding your life, don't do it half-heartedly. Because when you respect yourself, the world starts to respect you too. >The truth is that we can always try to be our best version. I realize that mediocrity is on the rise. Or maybe I'm more "emotionally mature" and it's much more visible in front of me. Even in the simplest things, it is difficult for us to do our best. Always with a lot of attitude, more intelligence, more work, we are always looking for the best no matter what job we have, for example: If you are a sweeper, may you be the best at the task. >It's not that people can't change... but it's not enough that you want them to do it to make it happen. Everyone has to make their own way, and maintain the limits that define it. I wish we could go back to the past to improve or leave some regrets behind and go to the future free of burdens and so many complaints, and emotional incompatibilities. We are more than just a role, life asks for change, it asks for movement and also courage. Sometimes it's time to jump in.empty even if your legs are shaking. To do different things, to try new paths, to discover that we can be other things, to feel in other ways, to live from qualities that we never imagined. Let's stop limiting ourselves with so much complaining and with toxic and negative labels, especially when conflicts arise, the impulse to blame, justify or victimize ourselves is very strong. We can reinvent ourselves as often as it takes, we can even change and remain us, only more authentic, more complete, more alive. I never forget that life is a school and each of us has unique choices. Without so much complaining, living is better. Janitze 🤗