Adult people because there is a great neurotization, a great immaturity in adult people and to be able to be more mature that implies having the capacity for intimacy, spontaneity, and awareness. In a wounded society, what is scarce are people who are not adults by age, but emotionally mature people. Those people are the ones who know how to hold a difficult, complex conversation without running away, they don't abandon you when the wound opens and they really ask for forgiveness. I consider myself an adult person, because I don't have answers for everything, of feeling without defending myself and leaving the place of being a victim. To be an adult is to stop getting out of the game of being manipulative and letting oneself be manipulated, it is to be true and the truth, even if it hurts, frees us. There are people in their 40s who act from their wounded child, they do it with a lot of emotional immaturity. I think there should be more education regarding this that I write, and parents more aware of what it means to really educate, not from the wounds to the children, from children. This of what I write applies to everything, let's remember that there are people with almost zero emotional intelligence, it is to go, they have it stunted, either by chemical deficiencies in the brain or mental, emotional pathologies that prevents them from feeling empathy. There are many adults disguised as children and there is nothing wrong with having a child's spirit, and what makes it uncomfortable is that this type of adult wants to justify their mistakes, mistakes as if they were still 6 years old. The transition from victim to protagonist is a continuous process that requires self-awareness, commitment and action. It is a path towards personal empowerment and the construction of a more fulfilling and satisfying life. The world may break you repeatedly, but the essential thing, what really matters, is how you use those pieces to rebuild yourself and become you again. Without a doubt, I don'T have dreams, I have goals, I don't keep pining for the impossible either, I try to be ready and prepared, even for goals more ambitious than my own abilities. I say yes even if I think I'm not ready yet and sometimes, I don't win, and never because I didn't do everything that depended on me. I don't need to have all the answers, just the will to take a different step, more conscious, more faithful to me. This does not mean that we are backing down, we are just choosing more wisely, and so we allow ourselves to let go of guilt, expectations, fears. My infinite gratitude to every wonderful person that life presents to me. Meanwhile, I listen to my grandson on his piano, he is a spontaneous boy, mature for his 15 years, with different paths that in many ways give him strength, and connect with the meaning of life. We can rewrite our history, and start again, with new words, new dreams. Tomorrow will be nice ☀ Janitze 🌹