It is easier and more comfortable, it does not force to understand, but to place oneself, with the alleged good, against the alleged evil, as if it were possible, that the party and the ideology of the good exist against the party and the ideology of the bad. And what a coincidence, that everyone, believes and thinks, that he or she, by definition, is "good" and where he or she is located, are all the other good ones. So sometimes when we feel like discussing, it is better to consider pause, acceptance and solution. Why? Because we have to handle the things that others tell us... Do you know what for? to avoid the conflict that is not always avoided but we can decide from where to respond. It is also true that sometimes someone says or does something and we feel that impulse to defend ourselves. But the truth is that that 'other' only brings us news about ourselves that we still need to look at, understand or heal. And also when things are happening to others, we can choose not to react to what happens to the other, it's better to think in black and white. Because many times you have to put your interests and needs above the interests and needs of others, and that doesn't mean you're a bad person, that doesn't mean you have to be judged, that doesn't mean you're being selfish. That means, from my perspective, that not everything that happens around us requires our response, sometimes our calmness and presence are enough. This is true, it is correct, but we have to accompany words with actions, and something very important is to be strong, to fight, because nothing is given away in this life, everything has a cost, and that is called Maturity. So let's stop complaining, victimhood, blaming and be RESPONSIBLE, that's called STRENGTH 🦁 and DISCIPLINE Life includes periods of stability, followed by others of death/farewell of stages, cycles with links, places, jobs, as well as periods of rebirth🔥🔥. We leave parts of ourselves, we choose what we take not only in our suitcases, but from the lived experiences. What has been lived is honored, grateful, and often transformed into the fertilizer of what will come. We take the lessons experienced, learned by fire in the heart and skin. Everything has its time and pause, acceptance and solution have their process and patience will always be the key. Maybe life is inviting you to stop making so much effort to be taken into account and loved. You are already, and you are in the present tense: where all possibilities exist at once. Let go of that guilt... “The level of suffering in your life is proportional to the size of your ego.”- ECKHART TOLLE. Nice day. Janitze. 🌹