Hello everyone, how are you doing today? Hope you are having a great time. This will be *Week 185, Edition 02* of our Weekly Featured Content.
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So, last Saturday we had our hangout as usual, and it was just so much fun that we did not want it to end. We are currently on the second topic for this week, which is “KIDS AND PRIVACY”.
But before we proceed with the details of the topic, let us take a look at the winners of the last topic, which was “CIRCLE OF PAIN”.
This topic was geared toward each member of the community sharing their thoughts on people transferring hurt to others. Many times, people go through horrendous events, and it ends up changing the way they view life or themselves, and for some, they end up transferring this pain onto the people around them.
We got to see that no matter how bad one person’s past is, or how severe the trauma was, it will never be acceptable to transfer the pain and hurt to someone else. Not just because they’re innocents and have nothing to do with the real culprit, but also, most of the time, they have no idea why they’re being treated that way. It’s just a painful experience all round. It was an enlightening topic, indeed.
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> For this topic, we went through every entry post, and that is every post with the #hl-exclusive & #hl-w185e1; tag. And with the number of wonderful posts out there, it was quite difficult to make a selection. But eventually, we did just that. And so, the posts that will be featured not just for their exceptional content, but also for their level of engagement with other authors, will be listed below. 
[FROM VICTIM TO VILLAIN: TRAUMA ISN’T A LICENSE TO INFLICT PAIN](https://peakd.com/hive-153850/@vickoly/from-victim-to-villain-trauma-isnt-a-license-to-inflict-pain-9jm) by @vickoly
*This author told us that there will never be a justification for inflicting pain on others. Hurting other people simply because you got hurt should be a crime punishable by law. Everyone has control of their lives, including how pain affects and shapes them. So, we can all take responsibility and stop blaming our past for the things we do in the present.*
[GHOST OF THE PAST: PAIN AND FORGIVENESS](https://peakd.com/hive-153850/@tegoshei/ghost-of-the-past-pain) by @tegoshei
*For this author, she tells us that pain doesn’t justify causing more pain. And while forgiveness may come easily for her, she never really forgets though. She has learned to stay away from anything that threatens her peace, and also the things that cause her pain. We all need to learn kindness regardless of our past experiences.*
[TRAUMA ISN’T A FREE PASS TO CAUSE MORE PAIN](https://peakd.com/hive-153850/@xlety/trauma-isn-t-a-free) by @xlety *For this author, she told us that no one should make another person suffer because of something they themselves went through. Our hurt should never be a justification to hurt other people. Everyone has baggage and traumas that they’re dealing with, but how we all handle them is what differs. When we get hurt, the pain we feel is normal, but what isn’t normal is how we inflict the same pain on others.*
*** > All of the above contents were supported by our official curation account [lazy-panda](https://peakd.com/@lazy-panda) with an extra amount. The first 3 authors will receive 100 ECENCY Points [ Sponsored By Ecency Team (@melinda010100) ] and 1 $PANDAMINER each as a reward next Monday. These posts were selected because of their special attention to detail and how they followed the topic. There were a lot of good ones out there, but we just could not pick them all. But then, we have some honorable mentions listed below:
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> For this topic, we went through every entry post, and that is every post with the #hl-exclusive & #hl-w185e1; tag. And with the number of wonderful posts out there, it was quite difficult to make a selection. But eventually, we did just that. And so, the posts that will be featured not just for their exceptional content, but also for their level of engagement with other authors, will be listed below. 
Featured Contents
[FROM VICTIM TO VILLAIN: TRAUMA ISN’T A LICENSE TO INFLICT PAIN](https://peakd.com/hive-153850/@vickoly/from-victim-to-villain-trauma-isnt-a-license-to-inflict-pain-9jm) by @vickoly
*This author told us that there will never be a justification for inflicting pain on others. Hurting other people simply because you got hurt should be a crime punishable by law. Everyone has control of their lives, including how pain affects and shapes them. So, we can all take responsibility and stop blaming our past for the things we do in the present.*
[GHOST OF THE PAST: PAIN AND FORGIVENESS](https://peakd.com/hive-153850/@tegoshei/ghost-of-the-past-pain) by @tegoshei
*For this author, she tells us that pain doesn’t justify causing more pain. And while forgiveness may come easily for her, she never really forgets though. She has learned to stay away from anything that threatens her peace, and also the things that cause her pain. We all need to learn kindness regardless of our past experiences.*
[TRAUMA ISN’T A FREE PASS TO CAUSE MORE PAIN](https://peakd.com/hive-153850/@xlety/trauma-isn-t-a-free) by @xlety *For this author, she told us that no one should make another person suffer because of something they themselves went through. Our hurt should never be a justification to hurt other people. Everyone has baggage and traumas that they’re dealing with, but how we all handle them is what differs. When we get hurt, the pain we feel is normal, but what isn’t normal is how we inflict the same pain on others.*
*** > All of the above contents were supported by our official curation account [lazy-panda](https://peakd.com/@lazy-panda) with an extra amount. The first 3 authors will receive 100 ECENCY Points [ Sponsored By Ecency Team (@melinda010100) ] and 1 $PANDAMINER each as a reward next Monday. These posts were selected because of their special attention to detail and how they followed the topic. There were a lot of good ones out there, but we just could not pick them all. But then, we have some honorable mentions listed below:
Honorable Mention
[IT’S NOT NECESSARY TO FOLLOW FOOTSTEPS](https://peakd.com/hive-153850/@intishar/its-not-necessary-to-follow-footsteps-fkc) by @intishar [ECHOES OF HURT: THE RAW TRUTH ABOUT PASSING PAIN- AND STOPPING IT](https://peakd.com/hive-153850/@idksamad78699/echoes-of-hurt-the-raw-truth-about-passing-pain-and-stopping-it-6rp) by @idksamad78699 [PAIN ISN’T LEGACY: PAST TRAUMA SHOULDN’T DEFINE YOUR ACTIONS ](https://peakd.com/hive-153850/@nkemakonam89/pain-isnt-a-legacy-past-trauma-shouldnt-define-your-actions-bjw) by @nkemakonam89 These are posts that were also found to be quite exceptional. ---- ---- AND NOW, WE MOVE ON TO THE NEW TOPIC!
***Week 185 - Edition 02 Topic
**KIDS AND PRIVACY** *“Do kids need privacy? For how long do you implement the 'open-doors' policy with kids? And then, how do you allow them to take over their private lives without giving them too much or being too invasive as a parent? Is there a right way to do this? Please let us know.”* * Must use #hl-exclusive & #hl-w185e2 tags while posting. * Submission Deadline:- 2nd October; 11:59 P.M UTC ---- ----  RULES & REGULATIONS > 1. You must be a verified member of our community to participate. > 2. You MUST use the #hl-exclusive tag in your featured edition participation post. Also, you MUST use another tag according to the week & edition number. For instance, if you are making content for Week 01 Edition 01, you will use #hl-w1e1. If it is Week 02 Edition 03, then you will have to use #hl-w2e3. (Abusing these tags will cause severe punishment.) > 3. You must share the participation post's link in the #featured-post-promotion channel in our Discord server. > 4. Members must interact & engage in each other's participation posts. > 5. Submission Deadline:- Edition 01:- Monday-Tuesday (11.59 PM UTC) Edition 02:- Wednesday-Thursday (11.59 PM UTC) Edition 03:- Friday-Saturday (11.59 PM UTC) > 6. Prize Distribution:- Each Sunday >7. Topic Description:- The topic description given in the announcement must NOT be included/copied and pasted in the participation post.  All of the above rules are mandatory for participating. A big congrats to the authors whose posts made it to today’s featured edition, and as we have gotten to the next topic, we look forward to reading more posts from you. > If you are wondering what the Weekly Featured Edition is, you can get Basic Knowledge about it from [This Post](https://hive.blog/hive-153850/@kronias/announcing-some-changes-regarding-featured-content-s-edition-or-or-updated-rules-and-guidelines). If you are a new member in our community, complete the [Verification Process](https://hive.blog/hive-153850/@kronias/new-and-updated-guidelines-on-how-to-complete-verification-process-stage-01-from-our-discord-server) from our Discord server to get support from us. To know more about our community, please go through our [Rules & Guidelines](https://hive.blog/hive-153850/@kronias/rules-and-guidelines-of-hive-learners-community-and-summary-of-our-roadmap)   
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