Greetings, Hive Family, most especially to the @hiveph Fam!
Today was different, not because I did something extraordinary, but because I chose to be present, for someone who’s been my rock through the storm.
I accompanied my boyfriend to the gym which is located few minutes away from our house here in Bulacan, not to lift weights or chase fitness goals, but simply to be there. He’s been my emotional anchor ever since my father passed away last July, a loss that shook my world and left me navigating grief one day at a time. In the quiet moments of healing, he’s been there: listening, holding space, and reminding me that it’s okay to not be okay.
So today, I volunteered to return the favor. While he powered through his two-hour workout, I sat back, observed, and captured moments through my lens. The clanking of weights, the rhythm of determination, the sweat-soaked drive, it was all strangely therapeutic. I didn’t touch a single machine, nor did I feel the need to. My presence was my purpose.
As I clicked away, I realized something beautiful: healing doesn’t always happen in solitude. Sometimes, it happens in shared silence, in the background of someone else’s grind, in the simple act of showing up. I may not have a gym plan, but I do have a heart that’s learning to beat again, with gratitude, with hope, and with love.
To those who are grieving, healing, or simply trying to find their footing, know that support can come in the most unexpected forms. Mine came in the shape of a gym date, a camera, and a quiet two hours of reflection.
Thank you for reading my little story. Your time and presence mean more than you know.
NOTE: All the photos shared here are mine, originally captured using my mobile phone; just enhanced using the user-friendly CollageArt.