I actually thought of writing about this topic because it is commonly seen in today's young generation. It is normal for a child to be attracted to the opposite sex as they grow up and reach adolescence. It is related to the hormonal process in the body. Often, as they reach adolescence, young men and women travel in search of love beyond the love of their parents. When I was in school, I only found love when I was 15 years old, and when we look at today's society, even 9-year-old children can be seen hanging out in public parks and beaches to make love as couples. Do you think these young children even know the meaning of the word true love? No. They do not have the awareness or maturity to know the meaning of love.
In fact, what we see here is the temptation to have sex under the guise of the word love. Young girls have to face the most dangerous situation here. A few months ago, a very obscene crime was reported in a remote area of our country. A 14-year-old girl had started a romantic relationship with an 18-year-old boy. About 3 months into the relationship, the young man had invited his girlfriend to the house of a relative he knew. She had rejected the invitation several times, but out of love and trust in him, she had gone to that house with her lover. In fact, the house was not the house of any of his relatives. Even when he had subtly deceived his girlfriend and gone there with the girl, four of the young man's friends had come. In the end, she had been gang-raped. This is just one crime. We can see many such incidents in our society.
In South Asian countries, where cultural values are highly valued, premarital sex is not approved. In our country, a white cloth is still hung on the honeymoon after marriage to test the virginity of a woman. In such a situation, a school-age girl who falls in love with a man and has sexual relations with him has become a factor that turns her future life into a mess. There are many cases where young girls who have lost their virginity due to love have committed suicide. Today, when many young boys are addicted to drugs, young girls are not afraid to deceive and fulfill their sexual desires. No matter how much the laws are made, criminals are seen doing their wrong deeds anyway.
It is the female side that faces the most inconvenience due to sexual intercourse under the guise of love and enslavement to emotions. Parents have a greater responsibility to prevent this serious crime and should be vigilant about the activities of their children. They should properly look into the money they request for extra class fees, essential school supplies, etc. During school education, there is no need to show affection to the opposite sex. It is better for both parties to act with brotherly affection and good friendship.
