We spend our lives searching and waiting for the perfect moments. The perfect life, the perfect love, the perfect family, among other things. And so time passes us by, we let opportunities pass us by and we stop living to the fullest. It is something so simple to understand, we are the people who complicate it forever, wishing for perfection. Maybe they do look around them, in the little things, in nature, in a flower, in the chirping of a nightingale or a hummingbird.
For me they are an excuse because they are afraid to face life and that's why they keep postponing everything for tomorrow. Believe it or not, the secret to be happy is to live without vanities and without thinking so much about what people will say, and stop waiting, I don't know what it is. I believe that nothing is perfect and it is a mistake to wait to enjoy, to be happy and to live. But, each one decides his life, writes in his book and makes the decisions that he believes convenient.
The problem lies in the fact that, as they do not achieve perfection, they look for a culprit and, as they do not achieve it, they blame it on life and their environment. Life, which they let pass them by, without taking advantage of the opportunities, nor did they take the risk to love and be happy. They did not even move out of the comfort zone, and tried something new to change their life. A vicious circle that perhaps prevented them from being happy. Every time you get close to these human beings, it impregnates you with negative energies and lowers your vibrations.
I don't want to be this kind of person; if I was one in the past, I've given it up. For this reason, I opened my eyes in time, I forgot to look for a perfect life. Now I know that I was looking for a mirage. I decided to change my life and turn it around a hundred and eighty degrees. That is why I prefer to be alone, read a book, make crafts, listen to music or just be in silence without doing anything and when I feel like it, I write. I discovered that with myself, I am happy and in balance.
I have left behind the search for perfection, I accept myself and others as they are. Finally, I can say, I am what I want to be. Friends of #ThoughtfulDailyPost, sometimes life shakes us up to make us realize that we are wrong, and live our life because sometimes we dedicate ourselves to be aware and live the life of others. We want to change other people to be perfect and as we wish.
I believe that this practice must be eradicated in order to be happy. Take the opportunity we are given to
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## Namaste
@mafalda2018
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