Greetings everyone, People used to say that depression is real. I'm not really believe in it until I passed through it. There was a time I'm passing through a lot to the extent that it has affected me mentally.
Some years back it was happened that I was dating one lady then, to be honest we really love ourselves to extent that we don't keep any secrets for each other and one day this girl told that she want to further on her study and she also said that there's nobody that want to help her and I told that she has a good motive.
Next day at my work I was thinking about the good motive she has and make a conclusion in my mind to sponsor her but what I'm afraid of is what people use to say about this kind of things and I also informed my friends about but most of condemned the idea and others told me that I should not do such things for her and one of friend said that if sponsor her at University level she we find another person.
For all these advice that have seek everything still and make my decision to sponsor her, but to cut the story short I sponsor her and I provide for her needs, her first year in school we usually talk everyday even sometime we talk every night and she usually complaint for me that guy's are just disturbing her and she also said even lecturers are also disturbing her but she said to me that I should calm that nothing will not happen and I was happy with reply from her.
About 9 months later I discovered that our communication has not really been like before. Sometimes if I call her she will say that she is busy. And if I message her she will not reply, I was been battle this for months and one day I make a decision to check her for their school, and I takes one of my friend along and on getting to her hostel and some guys hugging her because that day they are doing hostel party when she saw me, she was shocked and she started begging me and saying that I should not believe what I'm seen that it just a game and I agree with her because of love I had with her, my friend that followed me he just they looking at me anyhow, and I told him that she has explain herself for me and me and friends get back to our destination.
Next day it was the call of my girlfriend that wake me up on the bed and she started begging that I should forgive her for what she did yesterday and I told her that I have forgiven her and we started our relationship again but I noticed is earlier in the morning she called me and been praying for me and these makes me love are more than before.
After 3 months I didn't heard anything from her again and if I called her she will told me that I'm disturbing her and sometimes I also ghost her but the funniest part is that I'm also the one that will called her but still she is response to my message even she doesn't not pick up my call again.
One day I used my friend phone to call her and she not picked to my surprise immediately she heard my voice she cut off the call and I texted her that why did she doing all this for me and I make her realize with all have done for her
She replied.
That's she is not forcing me to help her and she that why did I treating her when I got this message from I was so surprised because I don't believe she can do such things to me, and I replied her that God will judge and she replied that I should move on with my life, but when I make some findings and I realize that she is dating another person in school even the person was the lecturer of their school and that's how will breakup with her relationship and I also move on with my life.
But for some months I started passing through a lot that it affects me mentally because of this matter but to the help of my friends because they stood by me and to help of God I overcome the stress and Anxiety that's how I managed the pressure of life but now have married with my life partner with three kids.
Thanks for reading
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