_Privacy something very important in everyone's life. Sometimes when it is given much people misuse it. When you restrict it more it can result to secrecy or rebellion. As much as everyone needs privacy I think there are time we should give this privacy to our children and there are time privacy night not really be important. Looking at the generation and time which we are today there are things we should put into consideration before we make any decision we are about to do. Our kids, our children, they are the hope and light of our tomorrow, whichever training and guidance will give to them today will determine their outcome or probably influence their outcome tomorrow, in the nearest future._
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_In this hive learner's prompt, week 185 edition 2. We are asked to talk about kids and privacy. I will be discussing about it, from my own view. Because when we talk about kids, we should be concerned about particular age brackets. Which simply means, that we are looking out for kids at the age of 9 to 17 years of age. In this age brackets, children's wants freedom, they just want to stay on their own, have their privacy and all that shit. This is the time it is very important to know what you as a parent or guidance should do at this point._
_Children will always be children, having different demands at the same time, they make decisions without knowing the responsibilities behind it, it is at this point the guidance are supposed to step in, know what to do, what you say and how to go about them. Anything you do wrong at this point in time the children grows with it and it's influence._
_And the age of 9 to 13 years it is expected that kill should be under the control and watch of the parents. But you can show them some respect and provide some privacy, just by knocking before coming into their room, take permission before you do things that seems to be personal even to adults, by this way you are loving them share things with you, discuss personal matters as well. Make them understand that privacy is not all about secrecy rather it is about knowing boundaries and respecting them._
_When you have an Open conversation with your kids will we be able to create a bond that even privacy cannot obstruct. I think one other thing that is expected of parents or guideline is to educate their kids about privacy, and why individual needs privacy._
_At a stage in life you allow them make decisions but you also watch out for those decisions they are making. Understanding how you can create a relationship that will make them balance privacy and secrets. When you give children much Liberty, freedom and privacy, there's every possibility that be my misuse this free opportunity and privacy to do things that them will like to keep a secret from their guidance or parents._
_Although there is no generally approved age brackets that I know, the privacy should be given or not to kids. However we should always balance it while growing up our children. Because when we try to protect them much without giving them much privacy, they might say it as frustration, intruding, and no appropriate self time. Meanwhile when you give them much freedom without educating them about the consequences of many actions because at their age they might not really know the consequences of many actions and decision of theirs. They might misbehave and the whole blame will be put on the guidance or parents._
