ASEAN Expressions: How We Survive The "Isang Kahig, Isang Tuka" Situation

@mayt · 2025-09-26 10:24 · ASEAN HIVE COMMUNITY

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For the past few months, my husband and I have found ourselves living through a challenging period in our lives.

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Every day felt like a struggle, a continuous cycle of "isang kahig, isang tuka" — one scratch, one peck. ‎ ‎It was as if we were trying to survive with the little we had.

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Despite the hardships, we knew we had to face the situation together. ‎ ‎We sat down one evening and analyzed what we needed to change. ‎ ‎We discussed our income, expenses, and the habits we needed to shed. ‎ ‎We also committed to managing our resources more wisely, helping each other with household chores, and supporting one another emotionally. ‎ ‎One thing I remember my husband said was, "Ganyan ang buhay, parang gulong", which means, "Life is like a wheel." ‎ ‎He explained that life is full of ups and downs.

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Right now, we are down, he said, but that doesn't mean it will stay that way forever. ‎ ‎The wheel turns and soon we will find ourselves on the ups again. ‎ ‎untitled.gif ‎ ‎Life can change suddenly, and those moments of falling are just temporary. ‎ ‎Those simple words, are what motivated me at that time to keep having faith. ‎ ‎I realized that no matter how hard things get, better days are ahead.

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I also found solace in prayer. ‎ ‎Each night, I poured my heart out to God, asking for guidance and wisdom to face our difficulties. ‎ ‎I believed that He was the only one who truly understood our situation and that trusting Him was the key to overcoming our struggles. ‎ ‎But there was a Filipino proverb: "Nasa Diyos ang awa, nasa tao ang gawa," which means, "Mercy is with God, action is with man." ‎ ‎So even though God's mercy is limitless, it reminded me that I also have a responsibility to act and do my part.

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‎We cannot simply rely on luck or divine intervention to change our lives, but we must also take the necessary steps based on what we pray for. ‎ ‎So with the wisdom of these Filipino proverbs and similes, we're moving forward with a brighter future and a better life. ‎ ‎So that's all for now guys! I hope those ASEAN expressions have inspired you and I'm also looking forward to seeing your own figurative language! ‎ ‎Shout out to @justinparke, for organizing this contest — thanks for the opportunity! ‎ ‎Until my next creativity... ‎ ‎Thanks for the visit! Have a lovely day. Buh-bye. 💗🌸

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